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A lot of the things we do on a daily or weekly basis have ways of doing them that can either be private or communal, some of these which we do not think to consider as having that characteristic.

For example, bathing in the Roman Empire used to be communal, but then Rome fell and citizens in the splinter countries began taking baths privately.

Receiving mail is another example. There are countries which don’t have mailboxes and everyone gets their mail at the post office in the PO boxes. It was the United States which pioneered the idea of the modern mail system, which is why we associate it as a private act.

There are activities as well which don’t have any history as jumping between one or the other that might benefit from it, for example I think towns might benefit if internet was free and freely accessible but only at the local library.

What’s a non-communal aspect of life you think should be communal?

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[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 12 points 15 hours ago

transportation, natch

[–] savvywolf@pawb.social 7 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

... Why should private internet be banned or discouraged? What benefits would that being?

It's a bit of a cop out, but maybe talking about and dealing with feelings. At best people usually only talk privately with a professional for money. Normalise just having regular group therapy for everyone that they can just drop in and out of.

Or if we want to really push boundaries: Orgies and kink parties. Sex is a natural part of life, no need to keep it secret.

[–] CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I'm not sure that something like a public orgy would be a good idea, not because of "morals" (I tend to think modern society is far too repressed about sexual stuff), but because of the health implications that would come of encouraging sexual contact between large groups of strangers. That sounds like a recipe for STI spread unless you were very strict and thorough with testing, vetting participants, and enforcing protective measures, which inevitably not every instance would be.

[–] savvywolf@pawb.social 4 points 12 hours ago

However, if talking and partaking in sexual acts is less stigmatised, people will hopefully feel a lot more comfortable about getting tested and talking about it.

And honestly, if it does turn out to be that big a problem, vetting and requiring regular testing seems a reasonable thing to require before people are allowed in.

[–] MicrowavedTea@infosec.pub 9 points 15 hours ago (5 children)

This is very close to your mail example but can we please move on from delivering items directly to houses? Just give me a destribution center or box at a 10-15 min walking distance and I'll gladly pick up everything from there when it's actually convenient. We can still keep the other model for special cases.

[–] Worx@lemmynsfw.com 9 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

"special cases" being everyone who doesn't live in a town? I'm lucky in that my village post office hasn't been shut down, but I'd still have to drive to collect my post every day. It's much more efficient that a single vehicle delivers post to hundreds of houses.

Maybe it makes sense in urban areas for able-bodied people. Still a drag to have to walk there every day when you don't even know if you've got post because something important might have arrived.

Sorry, I didn't mean to poop on your idea so much, it is a genuinely interesting idea, I just don't think it works with the way society is currently set up in my country

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 3 points 12 hours ago

Or disabled.

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 12 hours ago

So they just need to build a post office closer to you

[–] MicrowavedTea@infosec.pub 1 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

Sorry yes this assumes you live in a place where you can walk to something like a post office or a supermarket. Rural US may not have this but that's already kind of a problem. You don't have to go every day though. You can just get a notification when your delivery is actually there. This is already done in some places by companies but in a smaller scale where the available boxes are very limited and only for smaller items. With special cases I meant people who have trouble leaving the house for whatever reason.

[–] Fosheze@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Honestly If I could just get the part when they notify me when there's something to pick up and make junk mail illegal that would be great. As it is I hate checking my mail box every day just to dump literally all of it directly into the trash. I would love to just be notified when there is actually something I need to pay attention to.

[–] evasive_chimpanzee@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago

Usps has "informed delivery ", where they send you pictures of all of your mail before you get it, so you do know if you are getting something important.

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[–] technomad@slrpnk.net 3 points 14 hours ago

I could see delivery drivers really appreciating this. They deserve a break.

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[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 7 points 14 hours ago (1 children)
[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 2 points 11 hours ago

I'm with it

[–] metaStatic@kbin.earth 8 points 15 hours ago

are there actually places where the public library doesn't already offer free internet access?

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world -3 points 14 hours ago (8 children)

Generally think private homes are a giant waste, both in terms of wasted physical space and energy lost due to poor insulation.

Living should be communal. No residential construction should hold less than eight housing units.

After you do this, you can consolidate a bunch of an amenities - washing machines, parking, central heating/AC, pools, gardens, outdoor grills, wet and dry bars, basements, rumpace rooms, home theaters.

It all gets so much nicer when it's a communal living space.

[–] funkajunk@lemm.ee 6 points 13 hours ago

That's a nice idea, but how do we decide on who gets to live in the communal space?

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