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I was a long time reddit user, and made a couple new accounts as throwaways last year from different emails but they kept getting shadowbanned everytime I tried to post, comment or send a message. Just last night, my 3 year old account I had no issues using it at all got shadowbanned as soon as I sent a message. It's just so frustrating how hard reddit is moderated and there's no explanations given either they just shadowban you and I don't even know where to ask anyone either I installed Lemmy, hoping it'll be a good alternative and it is great and a lot of things I like about reddit, but there's a significant lack of the type of communities that I browsed in reddit. Hopefully I'll find them here or more people will join and it'll be better. So what made you install Lemmy and what did you wish Lemmy had?

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[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 4 points 6 days ago

I installed it alongside mastadon, and Lemmy was mode usable than mastadon

Reddit being ass

[–] mo_lave@reddthat.com 4 points 6 days ago

I guessed Reddit's trajectory would only go (mostly) downhill. I say mostly, because a few new features are useful, like comment searching. Awards are also back. Stayed in Lemmy because the community is more focused

[–] I_Miss_Daniel@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Left reddit for /kbin.

/kbin slowly decomposed.

Landed on Voyager as it was similar to RiF.

[–] Bullybeard@lemm.ee 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Hope you find Daniel soon my man, maybe he's here on Lemmy

[–] I_Miss_Daniel@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

Naah he buggered off on a plane to Spain back in the 70s.

I think I need a new username. This one's too confusing. I do kinda feel like I'm missing a brother I never had though.

[–] Corno@lemm.ee 3 points 6 days ago

Early last year I decided I wanted to join social media so I'd periodically look up lists of different social media websites and I joined the ones I vibed with. Lemmy was on one of those lists. I've been having such a great time so far! πŸ˜ƒ

[–] Rentlar@lemmy.ca 3 points 6 days ago

Happy new year and welcome to Lemmy!

TL:DR; Reddit sucked, I got bored when it was offline. Lemmy has similar moderation BUT a transparent modlog. Post grouping, more niche communities I'd like to see.

I had first heard about Mastodon in early 2022, but since I wasn't into Twitter-style posting I kind of forgot about it and moved on.

The quality of discussions I was having on Reddit had noticeably declined over the years, and top posts were bots posting reposts, and the top comments under those posts started to become straight up copied from past top comments.

Compact mode got turned off, and later the apps had an outage in March 2023, so it was actually out of boredom when I had stumbled across Lemmy for the first time. It was a tiny thing of around a few hundred active users across all sites then.

API pricing scandal happened a few months later, my distaste for Reddit increased and simultaneously Lemmy's popularity exploded. So for June I made it my transition period to convince others to join, and in July I made my farewell post, swearing never to post or comment on Reddit ever again. I peek into Reddit on occasion but Lemmy had fully replaced my Reddit habit by September.

Conversations here have been far more lively, nuanced, mature. It doesn't always happen, as there are immature clowns and trolls here like anywhere, but we have reasonable people who are able to have a productive conversation while having positions at odds with each other. This virtually never happened on Reddit.

Tip for you, there are some types of comments allowed on some communities but banned or frowned upon on others. If you get a comment removed, check the modlog, filtering for your username as to why it may be. It may feel like censorship or power tripping, but at least it is more open and transparent. You can make an account on another server or post on different communities, if it's simply a matter of differing philosophies with the controlling admins.

I'd want to see grouping features of communities, and also there are a number of bounties on features that would be great to see. Development isn't fast so I just have to be patient. More niche topics would be cool to have.

[–] sit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Banned for a stupid reason from Reddit. I made a joke that a mod from r/entertainment didn’t like and got banned. I kept accidentally commenting on the subreddit because I often comment on posts without checking subreddit. Even though I had muted and blocked r/entertainment it kept popping up on my feed because it’s a general subreddit. Got banned from Reddit for trying to circumvent the ban.

[–] Bullybeard@lemm.ee 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Damn that sucks, but didn't you try to just make a new account on a new email?

[–] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Yes and apparently I’m ip banned from using Reddit on my phone. I tried a vpn also but it wasn’t worth the hassle or the money.

[–] Bullybeard@lemm.ee 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

What did u to get IP banned bro?

[–] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

That comes with the ban because I have multiple accounts. That’s how they prevent ban evasion.

[–] roux@hexbear.net 2 points 6 days ago

I was part of the reddit exodus over the 3rd party app bullshit. I saw a post from one of the bigger servers bitching about how you shouldn't join lemmygrad or Hexbear because they are full of tankies so I made a Lemmygrad account. After Hexbear refederated I added a few of their comms and realized I jive more with their community than with Lemmygrad so I made a HB account and added a bunch of my old Lemmygrad comms to that.

I wish the hobby comms were more active. That's really the only reason I still have my reddit account.

[–] dogerwaul@hexbear.net 2 points 6 days ago

i’m in the US and am becoming increasingly worried about privacy online (as if i needed more reasons). as a leftist, i believe it will become even more difficult to organize in the near future and want to protect myself as much as possible. i know nothing can truly assure me my information won’t be compromised but i’m going to try and do what i can to limit the possibility. also, dealing with reddit, twitter, and bluesky have convinced me to abandon popular social media. i don’t even like using YouTube.

i want to belong to a community of likeminded people who understand the seriousness of privacy and the reality of potential revolution in the US.

[–] Trent@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 days ago

When reddit started it's dive down the enshitification hole. As for things I wish it had, a lemmy version of multireddits would be nice, especially since we can end up with multiple communities for the exact same thing here.

I assume you mean the federation in general or at least the reddit alternatives like mbin or lemmy. this is asked every so often and there are sorta multiple waves and I came in response to the reddit api thing were it was really apparent how things were gonna be.

[–] rayyy@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Tired of 14 YO "experts" and trolls.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 4 points 6 days ago

I am actually 41, Sir!

[–] CaptainPieces@lemmy.ca 2 points 6 days ago

Got a new phone and decided to use the opportunity to change up alot about how I do things, including using new social media platforms

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Not sure which wave in the toilet bowl I rode in on, but I do know I will one day be flushed.

Don't hang on to tightly.

[–] DragonsInARoom@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

Not reddit but the same

[–] Zeusz13@lemmy.world 99 points 1 week ago (7 children)

When they nuked third party apps. For a long time I used the official app, then I switched to 3rd party, nd I couldn't go back

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[–] kalleboo@lemmy.world 44 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I came over with everyone else in the big exodus wave from Reddit when they killed third party apps.

I didn't even use a third party app so it didn't affect me, but as an old-school Internet user I believe in federated networks over centralized services and it seemed like the one opportunity to finally get critical mass.

[–] kratoz29@lemm.ee 2 points 6 days ago

I came over with everyone else in the big exodus wave from Reddit when they killed third party apps.

Heh, and they say the exodus/protest were pointless 🀣

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