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[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 9 hours ago

Friendica, and to a lesser extent, misskey and it's forks

[–] ExotiqueMatter@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Twitter/X to Bluesky

Why do you flee a billionaire owned centralized platform only to go to an other billionaire owned centralized platform? (Yes, I know that in theory Bluesky is federated, but as long as there aren't alternatives to the official server(s) Bluesky is effectively a centralized platform). Use Mastodon/Akkoma/Pleroma/whatever, you're already on the fediverse through lemmy, might as well go with a full fediverse suite.

Also, a facebook alternative would be Friendica from what I've seen, but I'm not on it so don't take my words for it and go see for yourself.

[–] dzso@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago

In my social circles, people have moved from Facebook to Instagram and WhatsApp. To be honest, it's a different UI but the same algorithmic overlords.

The thing with Facebook/Meta is that it's not just one thing. It's a lot of different things under one umbrella. In general, the replacement for Meta is the Fediverse. But you need to be specific about which features you want to replace.

For long form posts, I've set up my own blog using Ghost. Ghost also has passable Fediverse support now, though it's still missing a lot of features.

[–] yuri@pawb.social 5 points 20 hours ago

i don’t think we need one?

[–] dasenboy@lemm.ee 2 points 17 hours ago

Diaspora? I'm not sure if it is still being developed though.

[–] Raiderkev@lemmy.world 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Wasn't friendica it? I don't need a replacement for Facebook. Barely use Facebook as it is. I was one of the few people that stood on them axing the chronological friends only feed. Once they fucked that up, I just said wow, Facebook is full of crap I don't care about now. Guess I don't need to use it.

[–] thebestaquaman@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Tbh, to me, a replacement for facebook is what I'm looking most for. I used to use facebook a lot to organise stuff with different friend-groups, and now that most people don't ever use it, that's a lot harder.

Facebook was the de-facto primary communication channel for organising events or coordinating hobby groups. It honestly makes me sad that they broke it to the point where I have a hard time inviting old friends that live out of town to a summer party or something. Likewise, I have a hard time being invited to stuff because I practically never check facebook.

Friendica may take over facebooks role at some point, but it's nowhere close yet. I made an account just to be on there for if/when it starts taking off. I hope the gap is filled sooner rather than later.

[–] Raiderkev@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah, Facebook was great when it actually connected people together. Now it's just a cesspool of AI slop and boomers

[–] thebestaquaman@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

EXACTLY! I can't believe that I've basically forgotten how the function of "social media" at a point in the not-too-distant past was actually to help real people stay in touch and organise real social events... how did we even end up where we are now? There was a golden age for a couple years where stuff like facebook brought a net positive to the world. Just makes me sad to think about where we ended up...

[–] watson387@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 day ago

Capitalism. That's how we got here.

Bluesky is merely a stepping stone between Xwitter and Mastodon. Facebook can just die with them boomers.

[–] Ideonek@lemm.ee 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] reddig33@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Mastadon is more like a Twitter replacement.

[–] juliebean@lemm.ee 7 points 1 day ago

from what i hear about what facebook is like these days, maybe craigslist.