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[–] MetalMachine@feddit.nl 21 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

We could have this, instead we use our money on endless wars and send it to foreign nations (Israel)

[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 25 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Why close it though? In Slovakia we have a few train stops with stop on request. The train only stops there if there's someone at the stop, or if someone presses a stop button in the train.

[–] GeneralEmergency@lemmy.world 10 points 19 hours ago

Reading some articles. It's a bit muddled because it's a viral story from a foreign country. But what I am confident in saying.

Low usage, this station in particular only had 4 trains a day. Three one way, one the other (the service the student took)

Three other stations closed at the same time, on the same line. One of which only had 2 trains stopping.

There is also the way Japanese train routes are run.

[–] bieren@lemmy.zip 20 points 23 hours ago (3 children)

In the us, they would have made her drop out of school.

[–] ouRKaoS 9 points 19 hours ago

Hahahahaha! They think there's public transportation in the US!

[–] Brickhead92@lemmy.world 13 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

And then fined her for doing so.

[–] Vinstaal0@feddit.nl 2 points 12 hours ago

The US is really where the Outerworld's is a documentary of, the only difference is that it is in space. But Robbie Williams is also not a money, but he was displayed as a monkey in Better Man so I guess is can still be an accurate documentary.

[–] modus@lemmy.world 5 points 19 hours ago

And then sent her to jail for not being educated enough to have a job to pay the fine.

[–] hakunawazo@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

Giving that she's Japanese, they would have deported her.

[–] 4shtonButcher@discuss.tchncs.de 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If only all the "freedom loving" idiots noticed that enabling all members of society to be mobile regardless of physical abilities, place or wealth, is true freedom for a society.

Being enslaved to a metal box on wheels clearly isn't freedom.

[–] Zenith@lemm.ee 8 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

It’s not everywhere but school bus service is fairly prolific in the US, lots of very rural routes that only serve one child/one family, obviously it would be better if we took all public transport more seriously but school busses definitely go way out of the way for students

[–] 4shtonButcher@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 12 hours ago

Imagine if school buses didn't exist and someone suggested them today. They'd be cursed as fucking commies and and ridiculed.

[–] DeathsEmbrace@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago

Yeah I think improving public transport should be #1 priority but capitalism would suffer. I mean we gotta sell shit cars and keep that industry alive.

[–] jimjam5@lemmy.world 37 points 1 day ago (1 children)

日本、恋しいなあ。

I miss being there 😔 Came back to the states cuz I missed family and was guilt tripped, and even before rapist convicted felon got to power I was longing to return.

The sentiment is only growing stronger to return to a place that makes sense and feels right. Japan is by no means a perfect place/country (they got bad people who do bad things there) but there was a lotta good that I witnessed just like this every day. Heavy sigh.

[–] BigBenis@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago (3 children)

From an outsider's perspective, Japanese culture seems to foster a mutual respect for one another as well as for one's community and environment.

On the contrary, America seems to idealize treating people with contempt unless there's something you would want from them. Our society is very transactional and if you have nothing of interest to show for yourself then you have no worth to anybody and deserve no respect.

I know this is all a big generalization of two societies consisting of millions of people and this isn't to say that everybody behaves the same way across both societies. But when you have a general behavior across a society then it's no surprise that a significant portion of that society will adapt that behavior.

[–] SparroHawc@lemmy.zip 15 points 23 hours ago

There is significantly higher pressure to conform to societal norms there, including misogynistic views on a woman's role and a more stratified social hierarchy - but there's also a belief that government exists to support society instead of existing to support moneyed interests.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 14 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

I'm gonna say that your experience is very specific to you.

I have an American friend who lived in Japan growing up (military brat) and who speaks fluent Japanese. She worked several jobs for Japanese firms both in Japan and remotely before she decided to stop making use of this very lucrative skill. Her reasoning:

  • The Japanese are workaholics who expect everyone else to be as well. You are expected to always be available and to always give the appearance that you are working even if you literally have nothing to do. If you don't appear to be living up to this standard, it isn't uncommon for your boss to publicly shame you in front of your coworkers.
  • The Japanese are extremely hierarchical. What the boss says goes, literally no matter what. You should never question or correct your boss, either publicly or privately, regardless of whether or not they are wrong, or if their mistaken assumptions could harm the business. If you do this, you should expect retribution.
  • The Japanese are paralyzingly perfectionist. One of her jobs was teaching American businesspeople Japanese. She also tried teaching Japanese businesspeople English, but found it was impossible, because her Japanese students experienced so much anxiety about making any mistakes while speaking English that they refused to try - which resulted in them never learning any English.
  • The Japanese are extremely sexist. People in public will openly make sexist remarks about women and/or slut shame them. It is common for Japanese men to refuse to speak to women about anything important and demand to speak to a man instead. And there's the whole issue with upskirt photos on trains.
  • The Japanese are outwardly racist. If you are white, you should expect to be stopped on the street for people who will demand a photo with you. If you are black, expect to openly be accused of being a criminal and a drug addict in casual conversation. If you make Japanese friends, odds are they see you more as a mascot than anything else - you can't really be true friend, because you aren't Japanese.
  • They are extremely sexually repressed (hence all the weird porn).
  • Almost all the non-japanese people who know Japanese or want to learn are sexist weebs who don't shower and creeped her out.

Like, yes, the Japanese have very nice trains. But the country has some really serious problems that trains don't solve.

[–] three@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago

Don't forget the xenophobia.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 181 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Lol the pressure, "are you going to pass or shall we keep the station open one more year?"

[–] ohulancutash@feddit.uk 33 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That is not a thing in most of the world.

[–] FooBarrington@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Passing grades? Where is it not a thing?

[–] Lyra_Lycan@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I believe they refer to forms of education other than the one you took, in which the student, upon failing to meet standards, continues to the next curricular year instead of taking the same year again, and remains at the lower tier of class education. Example, based on alphabetical grades: An F or a U in English Lit does not result in the same English lessons being taught again next year. It just means an F or a U. Leaving school with no grades above a D (or a 3 for modern UK grades) is possible.

[–] FooBarrington@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

Maybe, but it's such a strange interpretation. It seems obvious that the top comment was referring to the student not passing a grade. Why assume that they are talking about something else where the concept doesn't apply?

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[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 5 points 19 hours ago

I love her scarf.

[–] wildcardology@lemmy.world 47 points 1 day ago

Other students also rode the train but Kana is the only consistent passenger.

[–] Sludgeyy@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago (5 children)

On the other hand, found out yesterday, my step son's school bus will no longer able to pick him up at my house next year after 2 years of riding the bus. Neat

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[–] shplane@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

ITT: people who have no clue how a train route works

[–] Anomalocaris@lemm.ee 17 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

rather than be mean, because not everyone is an expert in Japanese rail infrastructure, can you explain why?

[–] shplane@lemmy.world 10 points 20 hours ago

You’re right, my previous comment doesn’t quite follow the wholesome theme here.

Many commenters are under the impression that the train is leaving the station solely to pick up this student, drop her off at school, and then travel back to the station. That would make sense if it was a taxi of some sort and she was the only passenger. However, trains in Japan have long routes, multiple stops, and pick up many, many passengers along the way. Keeping this stop for this student might add a few minutes to the total time it takes the train to run its full route but in no way is it a dramatic waste of resources and time that some people here are claiming. I’ve ridden on trains in Japan with hundreds of passengers that traveled hundreds of miles. Sometimes a train would make a stop in a rural area to pick up a few folks and other times we’d stop in a major city and pick up dozens of people. If one of those rural stops were nixed, I (as an existing passenger on the train) would barely notice a difference (maybe save a few minutes on my route), but I would bet the few folks who depend on that stop would be severely inconvenienced and struggle to find alternative means of transportation.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I need proof. Someone have a link to an article backing this up? The internet is full of lies.

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 22 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'd already googled there's a few. Please remember to stay wholesome

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[–] noxypaws@pawb.social 8 points 1 day ago

meanwhile Shizuoka Prefecture held up maglev construction, pushing back completion by 7 years because they've been begging for a Shinkansen stop for their airport forever, maybe, as "believed by some political analysts". the actual stated reasoning has been concerns about environmental impact around construction.

not that I'm informed enough to take a side on that issue, beyond just really wanting to ride a 314mph/505kmh train someday!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ch%C5%AB%C5%8D_Shinkansen#Shizuoka_Prefecture_dispute

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