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The state of the world haunts the back of my mind every day. I can never push it out.

I can feel brief moments of joy, but I can't say I'm ever happy, not while the world is like this.

Maybe that very world is a dystopia where the U.S.'s iron grip is so solidified that it becomes clear that nothing can ever challenge it, so no one has any expectations that things "could" get better anymore. The same world where the unbreakable, invincible Israeli empire is established in the middle east and maybe beyond. Constant anxiety is replaced by a feeling of constant dread and sadness, as "U.S.-realism" or "colonial-realism" "genocide-realism" becomes the law of reality.

At that point, the only real option is to "escape" from this hellhole.

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[–] dil@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

I have honestly never been more bloomer in my life.

EVERYONE is thinks things suck.
EVERYONE is pissed.
EVERYONE is trying to do something about it.

The only problem is that people don't know why things suck, or how to make it better.

Fascists think things suck because of [minority], and so they want to get rid of [minority].

Liberals think things suck because of the fascists, and so would like everyone to just play nice and we can work this all out, please.

But WE know.
WE know the problem! IT'S CAPITALISM!!!
WE know the solution! KILL CAPITALISM!!!

If everyone in the world woke up tomorrow and knew what we know, the suffering would stop.

The collective rage that we see in society would be directed at the true enemy instead of each other, and nothing in the world is more powerful than people working together to solve their problem.

The only thing we must do to win, the only thing that truly matters, is to get everyone to understand.

History has blessed us with the ultimate weapon.

A material power that Marx and Lenin and Sankara and Newton could not dream of wielding in their wildest fantasies.

NOW is the moment in history for revolution.
Capitalism WILL fall in our lifetimes.
I'll be surprised if it lasts twenty years.

The contradictions have become undeniable.
The people want change, they just need direction.

And for the first time in history, we have a direct line to every single one of them.

Don't you DARE quit on us.
We need everyone we can get.

Now get back to posting, soldier.

[–] D61@hexbear.net 28 points 1 day ago (2 children)

(if possible)

Take some time to log out and go stare at some bugs in the grass or curl up with a good fiction book or find some cartoon that has a few thousand episodes to focus on for a bit.

Pet a dog, plant some flowers, ask somebody how their day is going and let them know you recognize them as a human being (for better or worse).

Staring into the abyss all the time is very rough on the psyche. Its okay to take a break.

[–] thirstyskyline@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago

I need to do this too tbh. I feel isolated irl so I just keep doomscrolling or whatever, need to find something to do..

[–] Robert_Kennedy_Jr@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago (3 children)

find some cartoon that has a few thousand episodes

You're just saying go watch One Piece right.

[–] MayoPete@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

Or DragonBall Z?

[–] D61@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago

You're just saying go watch One Piece right.

brace-dark-cowboy Damn straight pard'er

[–] Inui@hexbear.net 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Ehm, clearly they meant Legend of the Galactic Heroes.

[–] Chertstone@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago
  1. stability is an illusion.
  2. western society is crumbling and that is what such a thing feels like. Romans felt the same way and were glad when the empire fell.
[–] forcefemjdwon@hexbear.net 14 points 1 day ago

Depends how long you live and how effective the communists are.

[–] sewer_rat_420@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I feel this every day. We have to watch children being murdered abroad and children, women, and workers being abducted and tortured here in the US. Then we have to watch as those who speak out on these atrocities are disappeared, shot and assaulted by police.

The future looks grim - grim for the Palestinians, grim for migrants in the US, and for every other group that is being or will be targeted by the rising fascism across the world. Millions, maybe billions will die. Every day, we might wake up to nuclear war.

None of this affects me really, being a white us citizen. But I can't just watch and forget about it. It haunts my mind every day.

And the economic fears and pain continue. Groceries continue to rise, my rent continues to rise, and when a recession and layoffs inevitably happen, the meager life which my partner and I have built might be lost as well. I'm lucky that we both have family that will take us in, otherwise homelessness would be our future.

There is nothing you can do but keep on going. Find and cherish any revolutionary optimism and small victory you can. There is a new world struggling to be born and we must continue to believe that. Otherwise, suicide is the only sensible option.

[–] MayoPete@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago

I hate how much of my self-worth is tied up in Capitalist ideology. I feel worthless as a human being because I don't have work and am resorting to farming sweepstakes sites for a bit of income. I hate that society thinks I'm lazy or something is wrong with me because my brain isn't geared to being a cubicle drone.

[–] FedPosterman5000@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Nope there is no escape. There are definitely countries with more humanitarian systems than the US, but the challenges we face are global in scale. And so while one may be able to change their temporary, local conditions, those global conditions will continue to shape the world in which we live. But hope exists in the fact that history is not predetermined, and through struggling together we build the humanity which oppressors try and destroy.

I believe that one of the more effective ways to counter this in one’s present situation (though I know little of yours) by building trust within one’s community, and working together to educate/learn from one another’s experiences. Then striving together to support one another within the conditions we find ourselves as subjects (those who can change the conditions through action) instead of objects (who are powerless and acted upon.) And finding liberation in commune with one’s neighbor, and support of one’s community.

I think this inevitably needs to spread globally, else the remaining oppressive hegemonies will otherwise continue to try and maintain a grasp on the power they have/project. Which is why solidarity with all oppressed beings is essential.

The struggle will never stop, but the beauty to be found is in the support we can give one another (and oneself).

Idk I’ve been trying to embrace this more and more to counteract the nihilistic feelings and prevent the misanthropy I’ve felt at my lowest.

Also - believe it or not, I’ve been finding Pedagogy of the Oppressed to be an excellent resource for exploring this topic

[–] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

by building trust within one’s community

what community is that? the white conservatives? the genocide brunch? the landlords making children homeless? the [hobby group] who do not wear masks?

margaret-thatcher accurately described american suburbia

[–] FedPosterman5000@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

Idk I live in a city and talk to people at the bus stop about everyday stuff, and it usually is more existence based than any kind of cultural discussion. Like yesterday at the bus stop we were talking about how Jay-z lost a million betting on basketball, and fucked up it is to hoard/waste like that in a world that’s suffering; which was an easy point of connection since we were standing in the rain since the city won’t build adequate shelters (because then homeless people could find a small bit of comfort).

And agree wholeheartedly on your description of America suburbia - and think it’s that way based on the fact that it was built with the explicit purpose of maintaining the “comfortable illusion” of wealth/safety through exclusion of “others”. And honestly have a hard time imagining that being salvaged.

Very rural, in my experience, faces a lot of the same precariousness as urban areas, and so I’ve found people (sometimes) more receptive to building community.

But yeah- agreed on suburbia - it’s just hyper individualist and built on exclusion, and idk how one would connect with the people that appeals to (ie why I don’t speak to any shitty conservative family members)

[–] ragebutt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 1 day ago

Disconnect sometimes. It feels callous but it’s necessary for your own mental health. The inevitability of our mortality, the frustrating reality of accepting that which we cannot change, identification of what is possible within our sphere of control that actually may influence change, etc all are important things but are exhausting. It is okay to take a break

[–] BeamBrain@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago

I think this is a question that human beings have been asking since the dawn of history

[–] Chana@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

To be aware of the state of things and injustice is to have a fury and anxiety. But this can also be sidelined for living one's life. With practice and hobbies and community and organizing. Every resilient group finds ways to do these kinds of things, and under much harsher conditions than most of us face.

But of course I mention this in a non-judgmental sense because this soothing and compartmentalization is not universally easy, it is not the same for everyone.

[–] marxisthayaca@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago
[–] grandepequeno@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

Do you play any video games and are there series you're big into? I'm saying because I find that to be very effective escapism sometimes

[–] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

i don't really have anxiety for it but i'm just waiting around to die after my personal life fell apart years ago because i can't do anything about my personal problems let alone society or the world.

[–] Ishmael@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You can always do something about your personal problems. Trust me, I've been through addiction, years-long relationships falling apart, losing jobs I loved, friends dying, you name it. Life goes on and it can get better. I hope you find something that gives your life meaning, and I wish you the strength to continue on until you find it.

[–] MayoPete@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

Nature helps me. I'm fortunate that there's some nice wildlife nearby. No paywalls to watch the turtles and ducks... yet

[–] TranscendentalEmpire 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Unfortunately we live in very interesting times. The global death of democracy is approaching right when we all need to be working together to address the rapidly changing climate. More than likely the globe will see a nationalistic dash for resources to where nation states attempt to bolster themselves before the advent of mass migration.

Now luckily, this will more than likely take decades, not years. Being a doomer isn't being aware of the state of the world, it's how you respond to it. Don't get caught up thinking about things on a global scale, if nations aren't able to fix it.... individuals really don't have a chance. Think locally, build a mutual aid and defense network that operates to protect your loved ones and your community. There is still time to prepare and neighbors to protect, and at the end of the day that's really what matters.

[–] Collatz_problem@hexbear.net 2 points 1 day ago

Liberal democracy has been dead for a couple decades at the very minimum. It is just becoming increasingly hard to ignore signs of decomposition.

[–] MantisToboggon@lazysoci.al 5 points 1 day ago