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This is a community for bisexuals, their allies, friends, family, anyone curious about us or our community, or just people who want to hang out.

Bisexual means different things to different people, and I'm not going to tell you what it should mean to you. But one thing I will say is that being bisexual does NOT mean being trans-exclusionary. We love no matter what dingles, dongles, or dangles you do or do not have in your pants.

Of course, there are the basic rules. No hate speech, no brigading, no doxing, no homophobia, no transphobia, no sexism, no racism, no illegal material. Rules will be added as needed.

At the moment, we do not have a hard and fast rule over NSFW images or posts, but I will say that this is a community about bisexuality, not for porn. Please don't make me ban NSFW content altogether.

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help: they both like me?? (thelemmy.club)

submitted 3 days ago by HellsBells@thelemmy.club to c/bisexual@lemmy.world

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so ‘alina’ and ‘liam’ are both people i’m interested in. as it turns out, they both like me too. alina has been my friend for a year and liam, two years.

alina is a good artist and she’s always making stuff for me and drawing stuff for me. liam is always complimenting me when we talk. liam is the cute nerdy type while alina is like the pretty artist.

both of them have confessed to me and i like both of them, and each know about my crush. what the heck do i do!???

how do i choose a boyfriend or girlfriend???

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[–] zomboi@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 hours ago

you should try dating them both 👍

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 1 points 11 hours ago

Is a polycule an option?

[–] bendovertherainbow@lemmynsfw.com 16 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Why not date them both?

Be up front about it of course, but you can't judge a romantic relationship as you would a platonic one, they aren't equal. So date.

Going on some dates is not a super serious thing. But seriously, tell them both that you'd like to go on dates with both and see what works out, and be up front and honest.

[–] HellsBells@thelemmy.club 8 points 3 days ago

thanks :))

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 12 points 3 days ago

See if they're interested in being a thruple and possibly live the ultimate bi fantasy?

[–] NickwithaC@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Do they know about each other?

[–] HellsBells@thelemmy.club 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yep!

[–] NickwithaC@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago

Well then... there is no problem here.

[–] JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 days ago

Continue developing relationships with both of them while maintaining open and honest communication. Talk about boundaries and expectations. If one of them gives you an ultimatum over choosing, choose the other.

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 3 points 2 days ago

Pick the pretty artist. Cute nerdy men are plentiful they're easy to get.