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[โ€“] TeaHands@lemmy.world 30 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Put this to a friend of mine whose mam taught at her small rural secondary school. She had two older siblings at the same school too.

"Weird. We couldn't really misbehave so that's probably why we all went so wild at college."

Makes sense. She really did get weird with it in college.

[โ€“] redcalcium@lemmy.institute 16 points 11 months ago (1 children)

My mom was a teacher in my elementary school, my father was a teacher in my middle school, and, believe it or not, my aunt was a teacher in my highschool. Can confirm I can't misbehave at school at all, but I didn't go wild at college though.

[โ€“] rustyriffs@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, your uncle probably works at the college or something. Better wait until you become a teacher yourself, then go wild. Lol

[โ€“] Susaga@ttrpg.network 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

By the time they do, their kids will start going to school and the cycle begins again.

[โ€“] rustyriffs@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

*nods

full circle. Yep.

[โ€“] fixmycode@feddit.cl 4 points 11 months ago

my mom was a teacher at the school I went to from kindergarten to secondary school (it's normal that some schools offer all grades together where I'm from) and I can confirm this. My classmates could get out of doing whatever, while I was always taken to my mom. College was the first time I felt a bit of independence and it was rough.

[โ€“] Haus@kbin.social 23 points 11 months ago

It could be lifesaving in those rare occasions that you accidentally call the teacher 'Mom.'

[โ€“] sudoroot@lemmy.zip 15 points 11 months ago

My mom was one of our lunch ladies in elementary school. It was great lol free desserts, extra food, and I would go sneak chocolate milks during a bathroom break.

[โ€“] zerbey@lemmy.world 13 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Not quite the same, but my Sunday school teacher, who was also one of my parent's best friends, was my secondary school English teacher. I was always nervous when I got a bad grade in my class, or stepped out of line he'd go tell them. To his credit, he never did, he also didn't treat me any different to all the other kids in the class. When in church, he was back to being "parent's friend mode". Good guy, he was a mentor to me outside of school and I miss him.

[โ€“] plactagonic@sopuli.xyz 13 points 11 months ago

My brother had my father as substitute teacher few times my dad never told me about it but his friends said that it was hilarous. He never told him by his name only "Yes teacher", "Mr." ...

[โ€“] ieatmeat@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It's forbidden in Germany!

If you happen to go to a school where your parent is employed, you will never land in a class that your parent is teaching. Homeschooling is also forbidden by the way.

[โ€“] CanadaPlus@futurology.today 4 points 11 months ago

Nice! Homeschooling mostly causes mayhem here. So many parents try it for a year or two and then send back illiterate kids to the public system.

Honestly it didn't seem to cause problems when someone had their own parent, but I can see why there'd be worry.

[โ€“] jeena@jemmy.jeena.net 8 points 11 months ago

My mom was teaching in the Kindergarden in the same building as my school grade 1 to 3. My sister was in her Kindergarden. I didn't really feel much of it.

Later I was working in my doughters Kindergarden (but only 3 months), she never mentioned anything bad. But I remember forcing her to try of every food even if she didn't want to, until they had hashbrowns with apple sauce which I didn't want to eat, so the other teachers forced me ... ๐Ÿ˜…

[โ€“] jacktherippah@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

Always wondered the same thing. Nice question.

My ex's mom was a teacher, certainly made dating tough

[โ€“] ModernRisk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 11 months ago

My mother had this, although he was more a chef in the school kitchen and such.

She disliked it by heart because she couldnโ€™t skip classes easily anymore. Though, she mentioned, she just waited till the very last moments and then still skipped the classes.

[โ€“] dandroid@dandroid.app 3 points 11 months ago

It was my fourth grade teacher's dream to be his son's teacher in school. I was only like 9, but even at that age it felt like a yikes to me. I did NOT want my parent to be my teacher.

[โ€“] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

My school I've gone to being a private one, this has had always been a lot rarer, as people like that typically become faculty members of public schools, but long ago there was someone in my peer group with a teacher parent. Lots of Sharkboy and Lavagirl vibes there because the teacher/parent would go out of their way to comment on the classmate, single her out, and be wary of anyone who became friends with her. I remember whenever a test was to be given and graded, the parent/teacher would be absent.