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[–] Obnomus@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I'm a guy and Idk about this sweatpants things, pls someone give me some context.

[–] knightly@pawb.social 1 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Aka "jogging pants", "lounge pants", "tracksuit bottoms", "trackies", "tracky daks", or "trackpants".

They're a kind of soft trousers or loose leggings worn typically for comfort or athletic purposes.

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 237 points 1 week ago (1 children)

wife in a healthy relationship, looking at her sweatpantsed husband: heavy breathing Oh my!

[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 154 points 1 week ago (2 children)

never underestimate the desire of some women for married man. I had a friend once tell me shw only dated married man because she knew he was good enough. No need to say the friendship didn't last long

[–] troyunrau@lemmy.ca 147 points 1 week ago (6 children)

This is a real phenomenon. Men are more attractive when they're already in a relationship.

There are similar psychological effects that exist elsewhere. A job applicant is more attractive if they currently have a job. A scholarship application is more attractive if you list your existing scholarships. The effect is basically: someone else found you desirable, and therefore I must also.

The effect is so strong that it encourages people to fake it to gain the benefits.

[–] CatDogL0ver@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

Exactly. Some people like things they can't have. The thrill, the risk.

Same reason why rich people steal stuff for the thrill.

[–] boonhet@sopuli.xyz 70 points 1 week ago (2 children)

You're also more confident when you're not looking for anything tbh

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[–] burntbacon@discuss.tchncs.de 113 points 1 week ago (11 children)

In a sense of understanding the wife's perspective, proximity is just as important as the other major factors that affect how likely a relationship is to begin. There was a cool study of college students who lived in an apartment style building that showed you were most likely to begin a relationship with the person who had a door immediately next to yours. The only exception to that was for the person who had a door immediately next to the mailboxes. Proximity matters because it lets another person see you enough to form opinions based on a lot of interactions, and we all know someone who 'shines' despite their physical looks.

Plot twist: new neighbor was wearing a shirt that read, "I <3 dad bods," and was already flirting (asking for help moving boxes /eyeroll) with the guy in sweatpants.

[–] QuantumSparkles@sh.itjust.works 80 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Really sad that so many people are closed-minded about relationships with mailboxes.

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[–] jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works 112 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Me: "I'll do my best but you know how hard it is to resist this." Gestures at dad bod

Wife: "Oh, I'm well aware."

Me: 😘

Wife: 😏... 🍆👉👌

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[–] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 56 points 1 week ago (20 children)

MY DUMB LUCK: does it anyway somehow

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