You were supposed to tell me I'm wrong! FUCK.
egg_irl โ Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics
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!egg_irl is for widely relatable memes about questioning one's gender or being an egg (a trans person in denial) as well as other eggy topics.
If you are looking for a place to discuss something specific to you or especially if you need help or are in crisis, we have communities and resources that can support you linked at the bottom of this sidebar.
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Sibling Meme Communities
- !traa (or search for https://lemmy.ca/c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns in your instance if the link doesn't work)
Sibling Non-Meme Communities
- !transgender (or search for https://lemmy.ml/c/transgender in your instance if the link doesn't work)
- !trans (or search for https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/trans in your instance if the link doesn't work)
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- !nonbinary@lemmy.one (or search for https://lemmy.one/c/nonbinary in your instance if the link doesn't work)
- !lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org (or search for https://beehaw.org/c/lgbtq_plus in your instance if the link doesn't work)
- !lgbtq_plus@lemmy.blahaj.zone (or search for https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/lgbtq_plus in your instance if the link doesn't work)
Community Resources:
- The Trevor Project / 1-866-488-7386 โ A US-based crisis prevention and intervention hotline and community
- TransLifeLine / 1-877-565-8860 โ A US-based trans peer support hotline
- The Gender Dysphoria Bible โ An in-depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria
- Trans Resources โ A directory of resources for trans, non-binary, and gender-non-conforming people
- LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory โ A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers
- Trans Resistance Network โ A US-based mutual-aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination
- TLDEF's Trans Health Project โ Advice about insurance claims for trans healthcare procedures
- TransLifeLine's ID change Library โ A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document
I had that experience and its everything but fun.
Damn, that sucks. Sorry to hear that! D:
Aren't they supposed to do that though? I had a similar experience recently and was surprised by how supportive my therapist is.
Hmmm... maybe? I don't know that they are supposed to give specific personal advice; rather, they are supposed to be supportive of helping patients work through issues to discover their path for themselves.
I am definitely not a doctor and do not consider myself bound by any sort of professional ethical code. So I could be wrong.
I mean, if they can tell what's going on with you and there is a clear solution known to be effective, aren't they pretty much required to recommend it?
I think there's a difference between telling a therapist "I'm trans" vs "I think I'm trans"
A good therapist imo would lay on the questioning if you used "I think" because at that point it's too early to encourage hormones or anything beyond that. A good therapist would recommend simple things to try out different forms of gender expression.
"Are you sure?" is the most I'd expect from a therapist if you said you are trans tbh
Hello friend.
Your post is breaking rule #1 of this community: All posts must be titled "egg_irl" or "egg[some emojis]irl". Please fix your title to prevent your post from being removed!
What a stupid rule๐ Having to tell people how to have fun๐
I didnโt make the rule. it has existed since the original egg_irl back on reddit. Your post was reported by other members of this community for having broken the first rule of this community.
I am but a servant to the masses, and the masses demand this rule stay in place, as is and has always been the tradition of egg_irl.
Sry shouldn't be directed to you.