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[–] mamaMiata@lemmy.world 219 points 1 year ago (26 children)

This may be an unpopular option since I've already seen it across lemmy, but the ____porn communities. I'd like to browse pictures of nice landscapes or exotic cars without worry about someone around me noticing "PORN" on my screen.

At this point it seems very old internet, something that made sense when those communities were established, but now is unnecessary gratuitous and not socially acceptable.

[–] DrMango@lemmy.world 58 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I saw a post about a community created here called "pixel passport" which I thought was a hell of a lot better that "earth porn."

[–] ImOnLemmyWow@lemmy.world 51 points 1 year ago (4 children)

EarthPixels. CarPixels. PornPixels. HistoryPixels. This could work.

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[–] Countess425@lemmy.world 215 points 1 year ago (9 children)

When people turn a popular post into an Oscars Acceptance Speech

ETA: wow thanks for the upvotes!

ETA2: omg my first gold award?? I couldn't have made it without my mom and Jesus through whom all things are possible

[–] ProvokedGamer@lemmy.ca 89 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

This.

ETA: thanks for one upvote!😃

ETA2: thanks for two upvotes!😀😀

ETA3: woah?! 3?!?!?! thanks for three upvotes!😁😁😁

ETA4: this is more upvotes than I have money in my bank account! thanks for four upvotes!💵💵💵

ETA5: INASANE!!! thanks for five upvotes!😍😍😍

ETA6: I’ve never had more than SIX!!! thanks for six upvotes! 😱😱😱😱😱

ETA7: thanks for seven upvotes! I want to thank my mom, my brother, Jesus, Scott, Bill Gates, and my cat!!!🤗🤗

ETA8: What? Why y’all downvoting me now? Bring it back to seven!😤😤😤

ETA9: Unbelievable. -400 upvotes now. I lost my house, my car, and my job because of this! 😔😔😣😖😖😖😭😭

/s

[–] Raccoonsteer@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

Best Lemmy comment so far

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[–] throbbing_banjo@lemmy.world 165 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Karma-whoring. It's already started with the stupid "upote my can of beans" posts... Dude nobody cares about your internet points, either activity participate or fuck off to Instagram.

[–] Malde@feddit.de 27 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Have my upvote! (Sorry Had to)

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[–] Smooth@lemmy.world 127 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Can we stop talking about Reddit? Let it go.

[–] negativeyoda@lemmy.world 30 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This

(I'm so sorry. I couldn't resist)

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[–] Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world 110 points 1 year ago (26 children)

Moderators who coddle bigots.

Bigots.

[–] pizza_rolls@kbin.social 28 points 1 year ago (13 children)

This is my #1 also. So many people "just asking questions"

I also hate the circlejerk of people going "I cannot possibly comprehend being gay/trans/disabled/whatever but I let them do what they want!" They're not aliens, you can listen to them explain what they are going through and have empathy. It's not very complicated.

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[–] Moshpotatoes91@lemmy.world 97 points 1 year ago (10 children)

"Thanks for the gold kind stranger"

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[–] lagomorphlecture@lemmy.world 94 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My cat didn't get any love over on insert community name here. I hope you guys updoot me more than they did.

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[–] ugh@lemm.ee 85 points 1 year ago (13 children)

Creative writing presented as truth

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[–] zinklog@lemmy.fmhy.ml 81 points 1 year ago (11 children)

All I want is that top comments under posts are something insightful and related to the post, and not just the same one liner boring jokes that keep getting upvoted for some reason.

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[–] meldroc@lemmy.world 80 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Safe spaces for fascism. Spez let The_Donald and its imitators fester for years, thus turning Reddit into a de facto Nazi Bar. Thus years of harassing non-fascists & minorities, brigading, spouting bigotry, disinformation and toxicity while the admins yawned.

[–] mindrover@lemm.ee 26 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Unfortunately fascist spaces will exist and cannot be prevented because of the core nature of Lemmy/fediverse architecture. Anyone can start their own instance and post whatever they want.

However, if the main popular instances defederate with them, then most users won't have to see those posts.

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[–] rob_t_firefly@lemmy.world 76 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

Sponsored posts, banner ads, algorithms, and other advertising-industry fuckery.

A reply that's just "r/(some subreddit name)."

A robot trying to sell stolen fan art printed onto t-shirts.

People childishly self-censoring non-sweary words. "Sex" isn't a bad word, but writing "s*x" suggests you probably shouldn't be allowed on social media at your stage of development.

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[–] matricaria@feddit.de 68 points 1 year ago (10 children)

Comments like:

„This!“

Use the upvote button and shut up.

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[–] Zozano@lemmy.world 68 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Please don't let /c/asklemmy become like /r/askreddit, which had half of the front-page posts being the same sex related questions every month.

"Women of reddit, what non sexual thing that guys so makes you horny?"

"What is the sexiest thing you regret doing?"

"How many cocks have you sucked while your cat judges you while waiting for you to feed it?"

It was bullshit.

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[–] Sinister_Grape@lemmy.world 67 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Photos of people’s wives or girlfriends - often taken without their wife or girlfriend’s consent - playing video games, with vaguely condescending titles about it “only being the Sims / Animal Crossing” and half the replies being absolutely vile. As a Woman Who Plays Video Games, it was awfully annoying.

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[–] buycurious@lemmy.world 65 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

The “hivemind” ignoring the correct information or even worse, encouraging the wrong information.

Does anyone else remember the whole Boston Bomber fiasco (i.e. We did it, Reddit)?

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[–] off_apparition@lemmy.world 64 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Thanks for the gold kind stranger

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[–] CeruleanRuin@lemmy.one 60 points 1 year ago (4 children)

r/the_donald or anything like it. Kindly fuck off with all of that shit.

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[–] riotrick@lemmy.world 58 points 1 year ago
[–] Marvin42@feddit.nl 57 points 1 year ago (14 children)

I absolutely hate the love for revenge violence. Stuff like celebration people running over protestors in their cars because they were forced to stop on the road. Or bleeding out after someone got shot when they robbed a store.

This includes that fact that you can basically guarantee every thread contains at least one comment claiming "play stupid games, win stupid prizes"

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[–] SulaymanF@lemmy.world 53 points 1 year ago

I happen to love megathreads. When a major breaking news happens I want to discuss it with the community, not read a dozen smaller threads repeating the same.

[–] tylenol3@lemmy.world 53 points 1 year ago

“Women of Reddit: what’s the sexiest sex you ever sexed (and why)?”

[–] hotdogthud@lemmy.world 47 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] KingScoob@lemmy.world 45 points 1 year ago (9 children)

"This." These comments add nothing to the discussion. I get that people want to show their support an argument/content, but that's what upvotes are for. If you want to show your support for something, then at least try to think of something worthwhile to add to the discussion while expressing your support.

[–] DrSleepless@lemmy.world 44 points 1 year ago
[–] Gigan@lemmy.world 41 points 1 year ago

Power mods, shadow banning, corrupt admins

[–] josephsh98@lemmy.kde.social 38 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Getting banned by a sub for simply being, or even engaging in another sub!

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[–] meisme@lemmy.world 36 points 1 year ago (12 children)

"Sir, you have just won the internet" "Thanks for the gold kind stranger" "I too choose this guy's [placeholder]" And the other corny overused reddit lines

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[–] Slynk@lemmy.world 36 points 1 year ago (9 children)
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[–] magnetosphere@lemmy.world 35 points 1 year ago (7 children)

People who don’t know/acknowledge the difference between “free speech” and “hate speech”

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[–] May@kbin.social 34 points 1 year ago (9 children)

When someone would ask a good question that you also wanna know the answer to, but then all the "answers" were just jokes bc everyone wanna get upvotes. I dont really mind jokes but those times it was a bit sad, then sometimes no one would answer for real bc i guess they see 10 replies and assume surely one of them is real already.

Also repost bots.

And apple vs samsung feuds.

And sometimes looked like whenever some people try to organize action or protests, comments just spamming that "protests do nothing" or "voting does nothing," or "what is this gonna do," not suggesting any other solution either, almost like trying to encourage apathy? Or discourage action. Sometimes i wondered if those were bots.

Also the r/wooosh when someone didn't understand a joke. .-.

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[–] Rengoku@lemmy.world 34 points 1 year ago (6 children)
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[–] DrTeeth@lemmy.world 33 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I’m feeling insecure and shy, please rate my anus.

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[–] Hyrulian@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago
[–] answersplease77@lemmy.world 30 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Cringe horny sexual questions on the main page every day: Reddit, what sound do you like to hear when you do the sex with your female partner? (and the post has 999999 upvotes and 99999 comments)

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[–] UnfortunateDoorHinge@aussie.zone 28 points 1 year ago (8 children)

/r/MadeMeSmile portrayed toxic positivity which felt out of touch with reality.

"I made my bed today. First time in 14 years 🙂"

  • 45 thousand likes and 2 thousand comments.
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[–] FoxyZac64@lemmy.world 27 points 1 year ago (3 children)

/r/jailbait

Also no trophy's, ever. Unless it's like a Mario Kart Lemmy Tourney. Then sure. But for a sub like that? NOPE.

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[–] therearenoteams@lemmy.world 27 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] Sinister_Grape@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The ragebait fake text message screenshots that plague subs like antiwork.

Wow, your dickhead boss is stupid enough to put all of that in writing and has the exact same style of writing, spelling and grammar as you do? Isn’t that a coincidence!

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[–] MiddleWeigh@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Links to Twitter. Never had an acct, the site is horrid, and I will not go.

Realistically, everything we dislike on reddit is pretty much unavoidable once there is a certain number of people, outside of being ran by some capitalist shills, hopefully

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[–] spacemanspiffy@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago

Ads

Purchased upvotes

Evil robots

you know, basic stuff

[–] Sanguine@lemmy.world 24 points 1 year ago (11 children)

Long pun chains

So. Much. This.

Long looping chains where the same 3 comments are repeated.

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