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Bonus points for: a way to get my playlists/liked songs off of spotify :)

Personally, I'd use Bandcamp. It's mostly indie artists, but there's a lot of good stuff on there. However, you can only play a song so many times per month before you need to buy it, but once you do that you own that song and can download it as an MP3 or FLAC. I also still use CDs.

Then there are the streaming options:

• MusicPiped is an alternative frontend to YouTube Music.
• Nuclear is a desktop app which pulls music from YouTube, Bandcamp, Apple Music and others.
• Olivia is a better desktop app, which does sort of the same thing
• SpoTube is another option, but I haven't tested it. However, it can access your Spotify playlists.

Jellyfin server that streams to my iOS Finamp app.

Music collected using Lidarr from the Servarr automation suite. https://github.com/Servarr/Wiki

Only service I'm comfortable paying for is my VPN, provided by Proton VPN.

I too would like to know.

Well, ViMusic uses YouTube Music except that it's free. Available on fdroid.

https://funkwhale.audio/

There's a federated music app:

https://medium.com/we-distribute/funkwhale-an-open-source-grooveshark-alternative-begins-activitypub-implementation-cbc10a412b20

I just started using this foss youtube music client (inner tune): https://f-droid.org/packages/com.zionhuang.music/