1984

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[–] 1984 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I almost never even downvote because it's an active choice to push down someone's opinion.

[–] 1984 3 points 1 week ago

I also had bugs around window rules to be honest.

[–] 1984 2 points 1 week ago

You are right, it could be easier to try and get some kind of a basic connection again, but the problem will still be there... And you will have to figure it out.

But if you use that connection to remember what you like about eachother, it will make that hard conversation easier, unless your boyfriend gets angry and feels trapped and cornered. But I don't see how you can solve anything without talking about what's going on, and sooner rather than later. :)

But it's hard to give advice about this. People are so different and when I read your words, I have imaginary people in my head since I don't know you guys. :) But I wish you luck anyway!

[–] 1984 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

But we need a place to discuss and vent.

It's nice that you are trying to do the right thing, but you guys really got that Reddit vibe here, where moderators "allow" things instead of "serving" the communities.

But maybe others will like this post more. I like the initiative and trying to talk to users in a mature way.

[–] 1984 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

He is tired of you but doesn't have the courage to leave the relationship. Its pretty typical.

If you changed your appearence in the last 3 years and maybe put on extra weight, that could absolutely be a factor too.

He is listening to music to avoid the talk. Because he knows that discussion may tear the relationship apart, and he doesn't want to be alone (just guessing). Or he wants to be alone but is too "nice" to tell you that he wants out. Also the third behavior, to act as if everything is fine, is about avoiding the big talk.

Obviously everything is not fine and you need to have that serious talk, and if you don't get honest answers, you should break up with him.

He could still love you, but could be that he is not attracted to you anymore, and he feels ashamed about that too. I don't know. Just talk.

If he is not going to be honest, you can't fix the problem. You are doing more then your part in trying to understand and fix it. He must too.

[–] 1984 16 points 1 week ago

People did this to themselves.

Unless we see some kind of regulation, today's big tech is tomorrow's big brother.

[–] 1984 4 points 1 week ago

Yeah I don't see how anyone can not see it's Google... Who else is even close to having all our data? All the web searches, mobile android play backend, maps, Google streetcar, etc etc... They know everything.

[–] 1984 1 points 1 week ago

In don't know of there is a huge difference to looking up examples in the docs and pasting them into the code. That's what people do otherwise, so... :)

[–] 1984 3 points 1 week ago

Good for you and have fun.

[–] 1984 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I don't know which people you are talking about, but if it's adults and you are a kid, then there are some reasons behind that... :)

My kid planned a trip to Croatia with his friends and they managed to book flights that made them spend the entire night at airports, because they wanted the cheapest price.

Counting in that they had to buy airport food and hardly slept at all, and came home wrecked and had to sleep all day, meant that not only did they pay more for the trip than directs flights would have cost, they also lost a day when getting back to sleep and rest...

I mean, it's fine, but it shows inexperience and unwillingness to listen to adults who may have good ideas... :)

[–] 1984 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I thought it was great but I think older people like it more. It wasnt about something happening every 30 seconds, so if you like movies that throw action in your face, this will seem slow.

Characters also felt real and had real emotions that made sense in that situation.

[–] 1984 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yes, it has bugs still, specially for widgets and stuff like that. But it's very stable if you don't mess around with those things and just use it.

 

I didn't know reddit gave out the personal details of their users, but I guess I shouldn't be surprised.

 

So the day has come. :) Which distro will be the first to have it...

 

Looking forward to trying this tomorrow. Anyone has tried it on their macs?

 

User content, created for free by users, moderated for free by moderators, and now sold for 60 million dollars to Google.

 

The floating window stacks looks nice, and also the OSD's. :)

I know this probably won't feel like a compete desktop environment when it comes out, but it's looking promising. I think it will feel faster and smoother then Gnome and Plasma, but that's just a guess.

 

This is the first thing I actually believe has a chance to hurt Google. Chat Gpt really succeeded, and it's Microsofts billions behind it. All at the same time as Google has lost its culture of innovation and has become a creepy sleezy company.

 

This is the real reason for companies wanting people back to the office.

All this talk about collaboration and team spirit is just the publicly given reason for wanting people back to the office.

The real reason is that now the owners of the buildings are losing money.

Cry me a river.

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A New Chapter For Mozilla (blog.mozilla.org)
 

Another CEO for mozilla. Good or bad news?

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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by 1984 to c/general
 

I noticed there isnt really a car community on Lemmy, but some of you guys must be driving cars....!

Im only asking because I just leased a new Volvo XC-40 and its amazing to drive. Really, really happy every time i get into it. Also because the music system is pretty damn good and I can play deezer songs and also music from usb stick. :)

 

I'm enjoying this. Also Musk went out and said that he wants barriers on trade or else the Chinese companies will dominate the market.

I thought Musk would be happy, because he truly wants to save the planet doesn't he? It shouldn't matter if he or someone else makes the best electric cars then?

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