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I agree with that, the point was to say that misgendering someone and presuming gender identity is never a good thing.

I believe as others have pointed out the term you are looking for is Salmacian, it isn't the same thing as being intersex. It is an altersex identity in which people have unconventional genital configurations, usually it's when someone wishes to have a penis and a vagina at the same time, but it's not limited to that.

I just created a !salmacian@lemmy.blahaj.zone community here, there used to be one but it died with kbin.social.

Fuck you spammer.

You can ban directly using Tesseract and if mod actions federate there it'll ban them, and it'll also remove their comments if you tick remove submissions. I've done it before for users banned from Blahaj but commenting in our communities.

They're not scary, they're awesome. At least I don't find them scary. Maybe some people might be intimidated, but once you get to know some trans people that'll go away.

I still burn CDs for my dad all the time, (I also have a few of them for myself too) since our cars have CD players in them, and while I usually play Music through the Aux it's good to have CDs for when there's spotty connection and nothing good on the Radio.

I just like wearing cute clothes and having long hair. I don't get turned on by it (I don't really get turned on by anything really). Not a fetish, but I also don't have gender dysphoria, I just like being cute.

Please ensure that the title of the post is some variation of egg_irl. You can edit titles when editing the post.

When did I say that? I said we should consider defederation as a community because transphobic views of an admin are risky and may lead to inaction towards transphobia on that server. That's the whole reason why we defederated feddit.uk before this, which is why I wanted feedback on this, from the local Blahaj.zone community.

The same way that having code on your computer written by stallman doesn't mean you support him or his views. Unless the creator backdoored it to do what they want against your authority, it doesn't mean a whole lot.

How? It's free and open source software. This sentiment just seems dumb. Where's the implication that using free and open-source software like Lemmy means you need to support the devs or federate with their server? I see no such rule, and it's not like they can stop or disallow you from using it (nature of open-source).

Anyone can host an instance and choose to run it however they like, the devs have no control in how or why people use Lemmy. It seems like a lot of people have trouble grasping this concept.