StillNoLeftLeft

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[–] StillNoLeftLeft@hexbear.net 8 points 3 days ago

Sometimes I have to wonder if all of what I am experiencing as mediated reliaty is actually real.

The Onion should just pack it up, we live in the most absurd of times.

[–] StillNoLeftLeft@hexbear.net 14 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I'm just going to voice my appreciation for these regional posts you do here. heart-sickle

I often hope to emulate this from my country, but typically run out of spoons (also avoiding national news due to it triggering me these days).

We need hexbear-chapochat correspondants for all the places in the world, this is the best way to read news.

[–] StillNoLeftLeft@hexbear.net 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I found it be pretty hard to approach as well as I fully contradicted even myself on my own understanding of it in only two comments.

What I am seeing here is the way people have very different understandings of it depending on lived experience and even the context where it gets applied. Not sure if that makes the choice good or bad. It still doesn't seem to align much with the tank though.

But I too am ok with it, if this is what the community decides. I do think peoples concerns about it should be addressed.

[–] StillNoLeftLeft@hexbear.net 4 points 3 days ago (3 children)

I deleted it. :/ I have no idea what you mean by "join us"?

[–] StillNoLeftLeft@hexbear.net 15 points 3 days ago

This is what gossip is, yeah.

I grew up in a very small rural village community and the gossip around there was always community chatter. But I have to add that it was often very damaging to for example marginalized communities as well. And a tool for bullies. So I am not entirely sure if it is a term that should be reclaimed because of the way gossiping has worked in the real world at least in the protestant west.

[–] StillNoLeftLeft@hexbear.net 20 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

This was immediately reported on by our state media with the angle that reports about this were supressed in social media and reporting it in the media there took until the next day.

I only saw this because I saw a comrade post about it elsewhere critizicing our state media on their angle (as filming the sites of accidents is illegal in many places in the west as well).

[–] StillNoLeftLeft@hexbear.net 10 points 3 days ago (8 children)

Welp. Nuked my old account as it got about a year old and created a new one. Why is there only one set of pronouns visible on this one? Have not been able to find an option to toggle it. Using hexbear-chapochat from a Firefox mobile browser.

[–] StillNoLeftLeft@hexbear.net 25 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (4 children)

I will admit that I did not know all this about the history of the word gossip.

But while I respect the goal of reclaiming terms in general, as a woman I really dislike the name nonetheless. It might be my own internalized stuff, but having spent a lifetime listening to gossiping being ridiculed and having had to actively distance mysels from it to be taken seriously, I feel like if this reclaiming was to be done, it should be done by women only first.

Also gossiping and the dunk tank just vibe very differently for me. Gossiping isn't nearly always an act of condemnation, it is often just social knowledge transfer and socializing. The tank was crearly something very different. If gossip is most often understood as an activity that women do then making a place like the tank be gossip makes gossip look bad, I hope this makes sense.

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