CAB and ABC both seem to be recommended methods based on a quick search, with no strong scientific support for one or the other and each may be better suited for different scenarios? Seems like just getting started quickly probably matters far more... if you get actual training, you should probably just use whatever method you've practiced.
WalrusDragonOnABike
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I can imagine. Too many people will be like "oh, you do want sex. It's normal to not want to have sex with everyone" kind of thing, missing both the difference between liking sex and experiencing sexual attraction and the difference in frequency or causes of sexual attraction between allo and grey/demi aces.
Sometimes the reaction to aces by people who are otherwise not homophobic kinda reminds me of the reaction some religious people have to atheists vs followers of other religions: "we believe in different gods, but at least they believe in something. You believe in nothing".
I think my mom probably suspects it about me by now. But like, I also never have dated so it's more obvious, but for some reason it seems weird your BF'd mom would be caught so off guard.
Tbf, my mom also didn't believe me when I was like 10 and told her I just wouldn't have sex when she was trying to reach about things like std, pregnancy, and condoms... but I think it's normal to not believe a prepubescent child on that.
So BF is black-stripe ace, not demi/grey?
Best I can do is "try again". Also, if you copy/paste from a password manager, we might just truncate anything over 20 digits without telling you. Surely that won't cause any problems for you when you try to log-in.
Is there a hexbear bug list that could be added to? Someone ought to fix that.
Your password contains a symbol that is not allowed. GL figuring which one!
Have definitely had a lot of observer feeling, but there's some people whom I feel more of a connection with (particularly my brother) and I think the general feeling of disconnect from everything has reduced in the last 5 months or so for me. But I do have a hard time with vulnerability.
I have never managed a tenure in a space of longer than a few months, a year. Idk.
The online community I've been a part of the longest (was a on/off regular there for like 6 years and have still occasionally visited over the last few years since), I feel sorta like an outsider invading other's safe space now when I visit for a couple reasons.
Always fun when you are like "I should try ___ out because other people like it, but idk if I will" and then you try it and can't help but be super happy about it. Congrats!
Interesting. I haven't seen a printer without a type-b port since like the 90's or early 00's? And those were pretty consistently the parallel printer ports from what I remember.
Annoying that suggesting someone does not come across as a man is insulting and requires qualifiers like that (when told to cis people) )when you're someone who would consider such a compliment
As an egg, on occasion I felt like certainly people didn't really see me as a guy based on how they treated me. But I can't imagine many people would explicitly say they didn't see me as a guy even if they realized they didn't.
Start compressions until breathing ceases?