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Cardiac arrest, also known as Sudden Cardiac Arrest, is when the heart stops beating suddenly. The lack of blood flow to the brain and other organs can cause a person to lose consciousness, become disabled or die if not treated immediately.

The terms β€˜heart attack’ and β€˜cardiac arrest’ are often used interchangeably, but these are two different heart conditions.

A heart attack occurs when there is a blockage in the arteries that stops blood flow in the heart. Due to the lack of blood and oxygen flowing in the heart, the heart muscle tissue will become damaged. Heart attacks can increase the risk for cardiac arrest because heart attacks can alter electrical signals in the heart.

CPR – or Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation – is an emergency lifesaving procedure performed when the heart stops beating. Immediate CPR can double or triple chances of survival after cardiac arrest.

If someone experiences cardiac arrest, they need immediate treatment to increase the flow of oxygen-rich blood to their organs. CPR is the compression over the chest to manually pump a patients heart. Rescue breaths are preformed to provide oxygen to the body.

During CPR, proper hand placement on the lower half of the sternum is crucial. Placing hands over the sternum ensures effective chest compressions directly above the heart, optimizing blood circulation throughout the body.

According to the American Heart Association (AHA), the overall survival rate for out-of-hospital cardiac arrest is around 10%. However, survival rates can be improved if bystander CPR is started immediately. Studies have shown that bystander CPR increases the chances of survival for someone experiencing cardiac arrest. In fact, the AHA reports that survival rates increases to 40% or higher when bystander CPR is performed promptly. The surival rate is between 24% and 40% for those that happen in the hospital, according to the report published online in the Emergency Medicine Journal.

CPR is preformed between 100 - 120 beats per minute. Famously Staying Alive by the Bee Gees is the same beat. A large list of songs with the correct BPM can be found here


cure-for-fascism The American Red Cross gives the following list of steps to asses if CPR is needed and how to preform:

1 CHECK the scene for safety, form an initial impression and use personal protective equipment (PPE)

2 If the person appears unresponsive, CHECK for responsiveness, breathing, life-threatening bleeding or other life-threatening conditions using shout-tap-shout

3 If the person does not respond and is not breathing or only gasping, CALL 9-1-1 and get equipment, or tell someone to do so

4 Kneel beside the person. Place the person on their back on a firm, flat surface

5 The American Red Cross CPR guidelines recommend 100 to 120 chest compressions per minute, 30 at a time. Remember these five points:

Hand position: Two hands centered on the chest

Body position: Shoulders directly over hands; elbows locked

Compression depth: At least 2 inches

Rate of compressions: 100 to 120 per minute

Allow chest to return to normal position after each compression

6

Give 2 breaths

Open the airway to a past-neutral position using the head-tilt/chin-lift technique Pinch the nose shut, take a normal breath, and make complete seal over the person’s mouth with your mouth. Ensure each breath lasts about 1 second and makes the chest rise; allow air to exit before giving the next breath Note: If the 1st breath does not cause the chest to rise, retilt the head and ensure a proper seal before giving the 2nd breath If the 2nd breath does not make the chest rise, an object may be blocking the airway

7 Continue giving sets of 30 chest compressions and 2 breaths. Use an AED as soon as one is available! Minimize interruptions to chest compressions to less than 10 seconds.

Video instructions

Sources:

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/cardiac-arrest

https://cpr.heart.org/en/resources/cpr-facts-and-stats

https://www.mycprcertificationonline.com/blog/cpr-success-rate

Instructional images from the AHS Basic Life Support Manual (2020)

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (7 children)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

Luna* (9/30 - 10/6)
Eco* (10/7 - 10/13)
oscardejarjayes* (10/14 - 10/20)
HelltakerHomosexual* (10/21 - 10/27)
GayTuckerCarlson* (10/28 - 11/3)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 40 points 1 month ago (2 children)
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[–] blight@hexbear.net 30 points 1 month ago (3 children)

My friend told me they sometimes forget I’m a man, and before they could say β€œand I don’t mean that as an insult to your masculinity”, my immediate thought was YES YES YES I MADE IT

still cis tho

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 23 points 1 month ago

Sure is nice not bein' a man now and then though huh? madeline-smug

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 29 points 1 month ago
[–] GaveUp@hexbear.net 28 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

WHY DO CIS WOMEN AND ENBIES I DATE KEEP FEELING THE NEED TO TALK ABOUT CONTRAPOINTS WITH ME FUCKKKKK

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 27 points 1 month ago (3 children)
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[–] Kiagz@hexbear.net 26 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Going to a queer meetup only to find out that most people there are around 10 years younger than me sucks so much. Where are all the transfems in their mid 20s? Are they all just hanging out in online communities, not touching grass? thonk-trans

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 25 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I wasn't expecting an informative and potentially life saving post lol

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 25 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

live-tucker-reaction.

Use to be I posted unhinged stories about jerking off and our imaginary love life. Not anymore. What happened? Its called estrogen, and the democrats want to feed it to your kids

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago

Cancel culture πŸ˜”βœŠοΈ

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 25 points 1 month ago (12 children)

transphobia, bad friendsI need better friends πŸ˜”. I came out to one of the only people that actually stayed with me after the giant falling out I had with my entire friend group after my ex went and fed them all lies about me and they believed her implicitly without talking to me.

He told me he "cares enough about me" to tell me that he doesn't think it's right for him to respect my pronouns, but that he still "loves and respects" me "despite my being trans," whatever the fuck that means.

I feel like I have virtually no one in my life that genuinely cares about me, and I don't know what to do about it with my apparent inability to meet new people.

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[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 25 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

so I'm a few years in, and the dysphoria hits a lot less than it used to. conversely so does the euphoria, it's all just very normal to me now, which is fine and cool. but when the euphoria does hit... it's a real treat. last night i was preening a bit in the mirror over my hair, which is probably my favourite physical feature of mine. it's overgrown at the moment so instead of my preferred messy short-ish bangs I've got a middle part. my fringe has grown enough to be past the awkward stage and I actually quite like the style on me now. for fun I decided to sweep my whole fringe sideways for a scene hair kinda look... i looked really cute, but I wasn't prepared for the emotional impact on my little emo heart. i just really had one of those we made it moments. I broke down happy crying, totally overwhelmed (I had been feeling fairly dysregulated throughout the day). those moments, while they might end up fewer and farther between, make it all worth it. cultivate and cherish trans joy comrades. love you all

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 25 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I changed my name and slapped a [she/her] on my display name in the work group chat hoping everyone will eventually simply catch on πŸ‘€

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[–] grazing7264@hexbear.net 24 points 1 month ago

TFW Israel just started an invasion and the old News Mega is locked but the new thread is unpinned

gamer-gulag 1984

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 24 points 1 month ago

Reading a student's personal statement, and she's so based.

She's rejecting liberal feminism in favor of Marxist feminism and is explaining how patriarchy infects every aspect of life

You love to see it 😍

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 24 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Where the fuck are my fangs

It is transphobic that E and prog don't make you grow nice pointy canine fangs. When I say "I like biting" people should be a little scared that I'll drink their blood

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[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 24 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (8 children)

this thread making me wanna unsub from every comm except this one:/ reset the hours since misogyny on hexbear counter gang. as usual the cishets are not alright

Yuk. I see subtle misogyny in posts here kind of regularly but sometimes I’m bad at pinpointing why I think some takes are misogynistic and I’m so used to guys piling up on me to tell me how dumb I am for daring to suggest something is sexist that I just don’t bother anymore if I don’t have a super clear explanation. This is a pretty cut out case though and I think you explained it well. Anyone still arguing should be purged.

[–] starkillerfish@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago

real. not a big fan of a lot of cishet relationship posts on this forum lately

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 24 points 1 month ago (3 children)

We had a little girl who was obsessed with axolotls. She had axolotl plushies and squeeled in delight when I brought her axolotl colouring pages for being SOOO brave by putting her nasal prongs in for oxygen

I guess that's the next big thing if you wanna break into it. No more unicorn everything (unicats, classic unicorn, unidog, etc), sequins are on their way out

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[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 24 points 1 month ago (6 children)

I think I'm gonna get FFS. Thinking just my forehead, brow bone and orbital. It's all kinda scary to me though :/

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 23 points 1 month ago (3 children)
[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (2 children)

omg its the girl I would've been if I transitioned at 14

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 23 points 1 month ago (2 children)

someone told me I looked beautiful <3

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 23 points 1 month ago (8 children)

I'm thinkin someone should start a service where nervous transfemmes can get a Plausible Deniability Buddy to have when they wanna go buy makeup lea-think

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[–] ThermonuclearEgg@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Which one of you did this?

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

surgeryFFS done! Doctor told me that the went very well. Now I am wrapped like a mummy for a week. First night inpatient after the procedure was rough, but I did it! Nearly a year of planning coming together.

I’m surprisingly still cognizant if absent minded at the moment, capable of doing basic enough tasks.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Finally got a manual razor, wow this is way better then an electric razor ever was aubrey-happy So smooth, so hairless.

Also bought some nail polish at the store, I was very nervous the whole time but of course everything was fine and now I can do nails whenever I want!

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[–] refracting@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Why do clothes have to cost money? 🀨

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago (1 children)

den, anticishet, and transenby comms are now all local only, i'm leaking important info rn, the stalinistic mods may try to silence me very-smart

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

So this one is the only fediverse-facing comm?

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

yep, theyll make a thread on it at some point

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (12 children)

I adore all my trans comrades in the mega here, but seriously, shout out ash and TerminalEncounter specifically for helping me to absolutely beat the shit out of my egg. Their replies to my posts are always such a potent acid that melt away the denial and doubt

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (11 children)

surgeryTurning in early for the night for tomorrow morning's surgery! See all of you comrades on the other side. rosa-salute comrade-raccoon

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (25 children)

i guess this is like a public diary thing. mainly checking if anyone else feels this wayi don't really feel like i belong anywhere. i'm very social in my real life, i have friends but i can't help but feel separate from them. like i'm always an outsider, an observer of people, but i don't ever allow myself the chance to be a part of a group in any meaningful way.

this happens in online spaces too; i like to float through social groups, sampling everything and everyone without ever really putting down roots. real roots require vulnerability i don't want to express to anyone except for myself.

i feel like i'm constantly wearing a mask, even now. i'm giving information that is easy to share without getting into my underlying reasons because the thought of actually sharing what causes my neuroses terrifies me to no end. i hate giving people power over me despite feeling like an island literally every day of my life. maybe it's just more comfortable than talking about something real and rolling the dice to see if people are cool with it

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago

Pro: I cried today and I'm feeling things

Con: What I'm feeling is a mental breakdown

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (1 children)

dating??screm-aaaaa

So I've liked this guy for a while and at a party yesterday we flirted a bit. Today he's been messaging me and hinting for me to come over to his house and I want to so bad but I also haven't been with anyone since I transitioned, and I'm simultaneously super terrified and excited and aaaaaaaaa i don't know what to do!!!

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (5 children)

HOOOOOOOLY FUCKING SHIT

I was not prepared for how much I had underestimated how fun skirt go spinny was gonna be

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago (18 children)

not another hexbear man thread lmao, when will these guys recognize the role misogyny plays in how men act

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[–] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I had a dream I was a woman! I did not look like my goals, but I got a lot of gender euphoria in my dream, and I still feel it after waking up.

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (3 children)

"v*ush discusses the depiction of trans women in adult media"

thanks youtube algorithm, you've nailed the sort of videos i like to watch

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[–] AOCapitulator@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My nipples are very tender I keep hurting them when I buckle my seatbelt 😭

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[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago

first bottom surgery letter appointment done, letter should be forthcoming SOONβ„’

one more appointment to go, then on to the joys of finding someone to ~~hook my bits up to a car battery~~ do the electrolysis

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago

put on new sweater

tiddies visibly showing through

:) it's the little things

[–] Bat@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (4 children)

lol I found a typo on wikipedia

Charles II (29 May 1630 – 6 February 1685)[c] was King of Scotland from 1649 until 1651 and King of England, Scotland, and Ireland from the 1660 Restoration of the monarchy until his death in 1995.

I think this is the first time I ever found a blatant typo on wikipedia

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago

A lot of babies and toddlers sleep with their heads down and their butts in the air (it looks very silly), it's the fetal position just not on their sides. I don't have anything in particular to say about it but it does make my soul-ovaries squeeze in joy lol

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago

I'm passed feeling bad about not being able to present queer in normal society.

Frankly, I feel bad for them because they don't get to see my luscious hair and glorious outfits.

Instead, they get to see Norm Cismanbrandon

Sucks for them~

[–] ComradeMonotreme@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Someone anyone (Macklemore maybe) needs to give Chapelle Roan a copy of State and Revolution.

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