XiaCobolt

joined 3 years ago
[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 5 points 6 hours ago

I started shaving my body in the bath and it's so much nicer.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 3 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

You should it's neat.

I mean it obviously depends on the place because a third gender can range from just a different name for trans women or all gender non congruence, but I'd agree the number is probably higher.

I have worked in epidemiology and public health which basically just lets me know how much I don't know about stats.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 5 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (2 children)

Most western studies put the trans population around 0.5-1%. I tend to think like most researchers this is lower than the true number, due to discrimination, people being closeted, eggs not allowed to crack etc.

Population statistics are weird because 3% is actually a big number in terms of how many people that is and how many people have met someone etc. Individuals are going to know more of their ingroup though. Like Jewish people are 2.4% of the US population but their immediate circles are going to be majority Jewish.

Anyways it's just a number I keep seeing come up for rates of being third gender, two-spirited or any other non western trans populations.

My vibes based feeling is if all barriers were eliminated (and society still had gender) it would be 10% like the anime Dirty Pair. But that's solely vibes.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 6 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (4 children)

This graph. The idea being once discrimination is removed the true value is revealed and stable. People use it to compares to rates of being gay or trans.

But my problem with it is it suggests there's an upper limit on being gay or trans, which is probably true, but it would be also fine if there wasn't.

I agree we're too deep in it to have an idea. That said 3% is a number that keeps popping up in cultures around the world with more tolerant views to being transgender/trans adjacent. Like Samoa with fa'afafine.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 4 points 12 hours ago

Except I can't get it to play argh. Probably a way but it's annoying how some old games are basically unplayable now on modern computers

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 8 points 14 hours ago (9 children)

I agree. It's like when people post the left-handed graph. Sure it's probably correct that once society stops being structurally and culturally transphobic, there will be a cap on how many trans people there are (maybe 3% of population IDK?). But if the rate of trans people was literally growing exponentially so that at some point in the future 100% of people would be trans, there would be nothing wrong with that. Society would have to adjust but we've done so for other stuff.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

My partner is a liberal because they get upset every time I accidentally use their toothbrush

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 6 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

Thinking of getting back into Dead State. It's a spiritual sequel to Fallout 1 and 2 (and Tactics now that I have recently replayed that). It's a turn based squad RPG set in a zombie apocalypse. It's one of the few games that I feel properly balances combat against humans versus combat against zombies, exploring and looting, while managing a base, with speech checks and dialogue.

I finished it a few years ago but I messed up and caused some people to die and didn't get the best ending with a couple of others. I also picked a kind of boring ending where the surviving military helps you evacuate, in exchange for your character being drafted as a commander of their forces.

What I really like is you have to balance the personalities and factions in your base. You can't please everyone as different factions are diametrically opposed. But you can call in favors and persuade people to soften the blow. The other thing is you also manage your individual relationship with other survivors, but without any spoilers some survivors secretly (or openly) are real pieces of shit, so you're better off antagonizing them and bringing them into line (even killing or exiling them), instead of placating or appeasing them, because if you do the later messed up stuff can happen between them and other survivors. Likewise other survivors who seem like dicks or useless really come out of their shells and become real team players.

The combat is basically like Fallout 2. You have action points, 2 weapon slots, you balance attacking versus moving etc. You can customize your own character to be good at melee, range or a mix of the two (my favorite as there's some neat synergies that can make you a real jack of all trades MVP in a fight, but that's balanced against not being the worlds best sniper or melee fighter).

You also go from being like Season 1 walking dead helpless survivors to unstoppable killers in customized body armour and weapons, clearing rooms with homebrewed nerve gas.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

They're like small minority of Christian proto anarchists (no priests no churches, occaisonal communes/intentional communities) who are extreme pacifists, but understand how imperialism, social murder and slavery is violence, constantly acting against it by non violent but radical means.

A bunch fled the UK to the USA to avoid religious persecution and them immediately got started to get themselves lynched for helping slaves escape and working with first Nations people.

That said Richard Nixon's parents were Quakers and he was ostensibly one at some point, but he sort of drifted out of it in college before ever getting disowned (quaker excommunication). But he kept the ascetic aesthetic (Quakers don't drink or smoke, wear fancy clothes etc)

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I get what you mean but Quakers have been persecuted for pretty much always being on right side of history their whole existence.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

CW genital talkYo it's been 6 weeks since I started HRT and I tried to trim my public hair and ending shaving everything and woah my scrotum is already like a few shades darker and I got that very dark line under my penis. Which I understand all is normal but I didn't think it would be this fast.

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