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Is it just me, or have cosmic crisp apples significantly gone down in crunchiness and texture in the past five months or so. Every bag that I get is shit. Every single apple is mushy.

Cosmic Crisp apples used to be my favorite, and there was rarely a shitty one. I have gotten them from different stores, and they're all garbage now. Can't even finish them. Anybody know why this happened?

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Hello and Welcome to Random (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/random@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

You can post pretty much whatever you want on here, provided it doesn't break the rules.

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Introducing !random@lemmy.blahaj.zone , the place where there's no set topic. This is where you can ask questions about random stuff, share a cool fun fact you found, vent about stuff, or whatever else you want.

You can post and share whatever you want, provided it does not promote misinformation, isn't spam, and isn't hateful/bigoted.

I made this because I find myself wanting to post stuff, but there's no community where it would fit. So now there's a community for it to fit.

 

Here's a funny (but also FUCKKKKK) moment that just happened to me. Figured y'all would like to hear.

So there's this large group chat for students that are going to the college I plan on transferring to in the fall. I was trying to send a link to the course catalog projection but my dumb ass accidentally sent this instead:

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/andr.12278

I immediately deleted it but like two people saw it immediately cuz of the link preview. I have no clue if it briefly shows to people who just open up the chat or not. I said "oops, was helping a friend look for stuff" trying to play it cool ๐Ÿ˜‘. I may or may not have accidentally just outed myself to an entire group of people.

 

You are loved ๐Ÿฆˆ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿ’œ

 

Hello everyone,

This is regarding Keris, also known as RiikkaTheIcePrincess. Link to the previous post.

The last post that I made about Keris got a lot of engagement. She was able to get some financial help and other support, which was great, however their housing situation is still non-existent. The person who offered to let them stay in a couple of weeks fell through, so they have nowhere to go. Keris did make it safely to Minneapolis and is staying in a hotel until Monday. That means that they need a place to stay ASAP.

They really, really, need a place to stay while they search for a job. This is the thing that they most need right now. If anybody in the Minneapolis area has a spare bed, couch, or floor for her to sleep on, that would be a lifesaver. Seriously. Even if it's just for a week or a few days, it would be a huge help and would keep them off the streets for the time being while they figure things out and get back on their feet.

I understand that this isn't the usual type of content on this community, but it's a very time sensitive thing. There are projects in the works to assist future people who are in need on here, but for now this is all there is.

Keris said that she greatly appreciates everyone who has helped out with advice, support, resources, and donations so far.

Edit: Read her comment below for some corrections and clarifications.

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Keris's situation (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Hi everyone,

This is an update regarding Keris (also known as RiikkaTheIcePrincess). Many of you already know of the situation, but if you do not, go check out her posts on this community.

TL;DR Keris is and has been in an abusive situation with their parents in rural Oklahoma. They gave her a seven day eviction notice, and now they have to leave. They are trans, neurodivergent, and have no place to go.

Keris is in desperate need of a place to stay in Minneapolis. She has gotten their ticket and is set to arrive tomorrow at 4:20pm in Minneapolis. The shelters there are night-only, and are not a good fit due to a variety of factors.

If there is ANYONE who can host Keris in Minneapolis for even a couple of days that would be a huge help. They are in a very bad spot right now and could really, really use your help. If you know someone who could host, that works too.

Thank you for your consideration.

Edit 1: if anybody also knows of any programs in Minneapolis that can help get Keris less temporary housing and/or a job that would also be very helpful.

Edit 2: Keris has found someone to stay with in about two and a half weeks. For now, they are going to try and stay in a cheap hotel. Thank you to everyone who came together to support Keris in her time of need. Please keep sending support and kind words their way. Their PayPal is LuxStellae@gmail.com for those who have asked.

I love y'all ๐Ÿซ‚

Edit 3: It sounds like the place she was gonna stay in a couple of weeks fell through. They did make it to Minneapolis okay and are staying in a hotel. Keris still needs some kind of living arrangement (and friends).

[โ€“] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have been directly affected by these kinds of bills. I have been through hell and back because of them. I know the harm that they do. Of course I care deeply about the people who are affected by these bills.

My point is that you're generalizing and dehumanizing a large population of people. "Conservative" has a thousand definitions and is dependent on the person. It's like saying "liberal," where that can mean anything from anarcho-communist to a clintonite. Do I heavily disagree with most conservative beliefs? Yes. Do I think that people can change and grow as people? Absolutely. Those two things can be true at the same time. Life isn't black and white. How the hell are we going to stop this trans panic without education, activism, and believing others can change?

[โ€“] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 year ago (3 children)

That's just not true. I know a lot of conservatives who aren't bad people and do care about others, but are misguided in how to achieve that. There are some genuinely vile conservatives, of course, but generalizing like that is dehumanizing.

[โ€“] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thanks for sharing

Nex used he/him and they/them pronouns.

"Benedict, a 16-year-old Indigenous person who used both he/him and they/them pronouns according to friends and family"

Source: https://www.npr.org/2024/03/15/1238780699/nex-benedict-nonbinary-oklahoma-death-bullying

I know all too well about these kinds of situations. My first thought when this story broke out in the news was "this could have been me." I'm from a state in the deep south with similar politics, and I know how easily local politics can get corrupted. I was a baby trans in a shitty, transphobic school system too. There are good people and people who care and want to help who are from there I'm sure, but the system has been built from the ground up to enforce the status quo.

I hope that there will be justice for Nex Benedict. If not now, then someday when things change for the better. In the meantime, we have to fight to get there and hold people accountable for their actions.

[โ€“] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I really hope that Nex will get justice and that there will be an independent investigation into this because this is a load of bullshit.

Do they think we're stupid? Even if the cause of death was suicide (which we don't know for sure, because the autopsy is shady AF.) it's a known fact that getting a concussion can make people suicidal. Either way, the girls who attacked him are responsible for his death. Pouring water on someone does not justify killing them.

[โ€“] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've been trying to work on it and have been doing better with it than I used to. The damage has been done, but healing is a process that takes a while. It's definitely a form of digital self harm.

[โ€“] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I found this website that specializes in men's and women's tall clothing. I've never used it before because I'm not tall, so check the reviews.

https://americantall.com/

Those are some anime-level villain shenanigans right there

[โ€“] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Any theories about why someone would wanna do that kind of spam? Are they trying to discourage open sign ups?

In addition, the posts that it's targeting seem completely randomized.

[โ€“] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I know how that feels. My dad died around this time of year too, though it's been a while. I spent last night crying about it for the first time in a long time. It's hard and there's no linear path for grieving, it just happens and you have to allow yourself to feel whatever it makes you feel. It'll never go away, but you'll get stronger and be able to carry that weight with less strain as time goes by. Grief is love and a billion other complicated emotions with no place to go anymore. Just remember not to be too hard on yourself and do the little things that make you feel better.

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