Agreed, we've spent so long waiting it's all we're conditioned to do. We believed our elected officials would do what's in the country's interest but here we are.
We as a nation need to bury both political parties and get this train back on the tracks because while Dems are far better than maga they're still corpo bootlickers.
IMO this is the best option. Choose activities you'd like to do and you'll meet women with similar interests and it's way easier to connect.