galactic

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всем привет

приятно видеть лесбиянок, которые говорят по-русски

 

to jest pierwszy post :)

co tam?

 

my friend lisa has liked this one guy michael for a while now, even before michael met his gf ella.

michael is a good friend of hers that usually calls her and is in our friend group.

once ella came into town and moved here, lisa and ella became pretty close, and ella joined the friend group as well.

ella and michael also became pretty close, calling each other, talking every day, and the like. ella started to like michael, and lisa, hoping that michael was not interested, agreed to help her friend.

turns out michael did like ella, because they’re dating. now that he’s taken, lisa likes him more, because you know what they say: people want what they can’t have.

lisa tries talking to michael a lot and also hoping to take him from ella and get him to break up with her because she’s jealous of ella though, and she’s always like “heyyy michael 🤭 👀 how are youuu”

i get how it feels to have a crush, but what should i do if this continues to happen? should i just tell lisa that it’s wrong: i think she already knows that but feels she has to.

 

i thought it was a catchy name for a pansexual group, which I don’t see much of on lemmy, if at all.

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/panpals

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 months ago

She is doing better 😊

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 months ago

ah no i just asked her how she was doing bc she seemed upset

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

just a lil bit

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 months ago (3 children)

we do!! she’s better now, i cant ask them bc they’re friends w her ex who has a crush on her

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

yeah kinda

but her behavior was also confusing me even in a friend way

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 months ago (5 children)
[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 months ago (3 children)

ok tysm, last time i tried to ask she just said she was fine

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

She's usually busy with sports/inactive on phone. plus, she and her ex like each other (tho she says it's not true, they flirt and ex fs likes her) and her ex happens to be a close friend

But i'll try asking

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (4 children)

she supposedly likes someone else that she broke up w 2 yrs ago, unless she likes two ppl at once

ig not all ppl are openly flirty when they feel this way but still. i did act avoidant towards my crushes.

if she didn’t see things as just friends, it might explain a lot better, but im not confident, i just assume no

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Thank you so much ^_^ yeah ive asked and she just says shes fine

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 months ago (4 children)

I have asked her and she just says shes fine. She also can act completely normal and seems friendly, like shes not upset with me or anything, just normal, and doesnt indicate shes upset besides that, but its really odd. Its like she wants to hang with me but something’s preventing her? She even said i could go to her house so…

 

i don’t really need advice yet, it’s just a question. a girl im friends with acts really odd. we are friends, and we used to talk a lot, but then she started getting quieter, making less eye contact.

she also started being tenser/snippy at times.

when she’s not snippy, she’s just very quiet, which is most of the time. sometimes she’ll scoot over next to me but then scoot away, or act like she wants to sit by me but then goes away.

she doesn’t seem to be acting rude at all or mad at me. she will be nice, like smiling and waving and saying “hello”, or energetic when she can respond over text, so i don’t believe i’ve done anything to hurt her, but it’s just been really odd. what, from your experience, make a friend start acting this way? (especially girl because idk about guy friend behaviors)

most of the time, she acts normal, and i appreciate our friendship, and she seems to not hate me or anything like i said

update: i asked bc i was curious abt her behavior as friends, not just wondering if she liked me or anything even if that’s the impression some of y’all get 😭

 

Genuine question.

 

this was a while ago, so i forgot the sub, but the mod of it permabanned me for speaking russian because “he and his friends didn’t like my culture.” i ranted about this in another sub, but i quickly became shadowbanned. eventually, i was permabanned from Reddit as i apparently violated a rule and harassed a guy? I didn’t even put the guys username, nor do I remember it—it was definitely generated by Reddit tho.

of course, it’s been a while ago, so I don’t want anyone to actually do anything, but this is more of a genuine question rather than “I have his username and all his details: I want him banned.”

 

as a teenager, i know about two people (ages 13 and 14) who snore. usually, i don’t come across this, so i was wondering how common/normal it is.

people have told me that snoring at that age is not normal and a sign of sleep apnea.

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