back off, don't fuck my mom

begone, sir please don't fuck my mom

bread and butt hair

this lady sounds cool as hell and i would be happy to eat green tea pocky with her, lady and the tramp style

honestly this place is good to rehabilitate yourself after periods of isolation but you gotta go out there and eat dog shit sometimes. it's part of learning to be more social. real life challenges us in ways that this place can't and that's a good thing

this is giving me a lot of hope, thank you

https://tankie.tube/ works for me

feeling pretty good about last night despite being food poisoned. when is the cutoff age to be a princess?

i don't view it as a matter of right or wrong. the reason i asked is because it's a question with a million different answers depending on who you're talking to. i completely understand wanting to opt out of the bad stuff, especially with how things are going. i don't view my being regularly clocked as some kind of duty i have, it's just something that happens and i have to deal with it somehow. if i could get rid of that, i'd most likely do so

i'm glad you figured it out, i hope to get there someday

it's nice to have community and embolden other people, especially in the circles i'm in, but i don't know if i'm strong enough to accept making a statement without basically being forced to

when california breaks off from the US and floats into the ocean, we will finally have our paradise

okay, let me ask a question:

what does being visibly trans mean to you? like, emotionally. do you think it's important? is it something that you're comfortable with?

i am, in my opinion, pretty visibly trans doing a pretty visible thing and the only time i really remember that is when people talk about how it's important. i make a mental note of basically every time i've positively affected a queer person doing my stuff and those moments are some of the few things i actually keep in my memory when i need motivation. the best thing about being trans is the sense of community, even if not all of us hold exactly the same values. we're all on this ride together, for better or worse.

i think visibility is important too, i just don't see living my life as some sort of project or praxis. i'm doing the only thing i've ever cared about, as the woman i was meant to be, and i'm not gonna let anything stop me, especially not a transphobe. it feels like cognitive dissonance and it's progressed to the point where i literally forget i'm trans in public until i'm in a situation where i am acutely aware of it, either by someone mentioning it, being around another trans person, or being painfully, obviously alone in a sea of cis people. how the fuck do i keep forgetting a pillar of my existence despite actively being dysphoric almost every day? i'm torn between my identity being a foundational part of my personality and just wanting to forget about it when i'm out. i think passing fully would be great but i don't know who i'd be if i lost that thread tugging at my heart when i'm waiting in line at the store or whatever.

maybe that was all rambling and i'm doing my best not to give away too much info but it is something i'd like to get some perspective on. would you rather pass fully and live your life without any of the hard parts of being trans or would you rather live with the hardship and be a beacon for other trans/queer people to know that we're existing in the world and they can too?