I had written a longer response, but I realized that it is pointless to continue there or any discussion with you. Every time I address any of your concerns you came up with a new obstacle. Whenever you were asked to make any form of effort, you refused. This is not the behavior of someone who is serious about coordinating efforts.
It feels immature, like a college student who still depends on their parent's allowance but wants to cosplay as an independent adult.
I am offering the instances to the wider community, precisely so that they are not "mine".
The easiest way to get me to quit the "self promotion" is quite simple: step up and start putting actual skin in the game to build the infrastructure needed to support more people.