I've gone the other way with my thinking from pretty hard line Maoist to Anarchist in my middle age. I think your response is good for anarchists who are stuck in the theory of people who are long dead but not really my personal thinking and understanding, including living through a war, which I added towards the end.
I don't believe that the goals dictatorship of the proletariat is actually possible. I don't think that it will ever work and exists firmly in the imagination of thinkers from 100 years ago. I'm not an anarchist in the Bukharin sense, I'm an anarchist in the sense that I desire a way of life for all animals, including humans, that is anti hierarchical but simply do not believe these contradictions are resolvable in a knowable way. I believe that the future classless government-less system is desirable but that the pathway is not clear without Leto II-esque prescience thinking. If we get there from a MLM sense or some other sense matters not to me.
As the Nazis boot steps on my throat I'll be sure to be yelling about the tankies who annoyed me on a small site with 30k users