If you disregard a belief because it is detrimental to yourself or others, then you are not in a religion, you are not in a cult, you just believe in what makes you comfortable and that is okay. Religion is fine, until it causes detriment to other people, which is what it has done in all of history.
Believe in what you like, just don't impose that on others. Live and let live.
No shit, all these social media showmatches are just grifts. Anyone who thinks they are real fights are loopy.