wendyz

joined 1 week ago
 

In Portuguese, I find it funny that gato/gata could be someone attractive or a literal cat.

[–] wendyz@piefed.social 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Not quite. I have a separate account for Mark, but he’s an alter rather than a persona.

[–] wendyz@piefed.social 7 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I think he doesn’t love you, not really. He just doesn’t wanna be alone.

[–] wendyz@piefed.social 3 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

It sounds like a roundabout way of saying he wants out. “I don’t wanna hurt you by breaking up with you but I want out.” Also, saying you wear him out means he’s calling you exhausting.

[–] wendyz@piefed.social 3 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

From my experience with a friend, this usually means they’re tired of you, don’t feel like talking, or just a mean person who doesn’t like you and is gonna ditch you. Hopefully, it’s the second. He also could be depressed.

[–] wendyz@piefed.social 2 points 2 days ago

Imagine hating your gf’s favorite TV show. My girlfriend never says she hates my shows even if she doesn’t watch them.

[–] wendyz@piefed.social 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Damn dude 😭 Feels blunt, I hope she forgave you.

[–] wendyz@piefed.social 6 points 6 days ago

Thank you ❤️

[–] wendyz@piefed.social 3 points 1 week ago

I agree with the other comments. Sometimes, people are more inclined to want to fix things like you, while your girlfriend just wants to talk. I saw you said you would try this, which is good, but try empathizing with her and just listening to what she has to say. “I’m so sorry, that sounds horrible!” would even work.