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This is all mostly true in my experiences. The sexual aspects being the most impactful and otherwise just being careful about how you dress, which is more of a slight inconvenience sometimes than an actual problem, but there are others.

• There's no such thing as a quickie because of how much warmup is required and then once you're down to business chafing becomes a serious issue very quickly if you're not careful.
• Most alternative sexual acts to PIV(and even that) are out of the question or difficult and unsatisfying with some women.
• You can't use standard condoms without risking breakage and need to use very expensive brands or custom order them(and they still don't fit right).
• Depending on how far up the spectrum you are, staying erect without medical help can be difficult, but this is more of a fringe issue.
• Wearing good underwear is required otherwise nothing is left to the imagination. For example, I generally can't wear sweatpants or swimwear in polite company without taking extra precautions. In a similar vein tight clothes also present a similar issue and are more uncomfortable.
• A lot of people don't realize the self esteem issues that usually come along with it. It sucks to literally have an otherwise great relationship ruined because you physically cannot have sex with a partner.
• A lot of men end up with weird dysmorphia issues. You don't even realize it's an issue until you're well into adulthood because porn has ruined people's expectations. If you're not 12 inches long, you're not big. I didn't even realize the extent of the problems it caused until I was in my late 20's because until that point I actually thought I was small...
• You will never receive any sympathy for any of these issues and talking about it will get you laughed at in most circles.