Do all subreddits geared towards women have latent incel creepers stalking profiles?
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any time you post anything vulnerable as woman online you're rolling the dice some creepy guy will treat that as an invitation to message you
Yeah apparently it ramped up when posted pretty proudly about finding a dress that fit her curves and included a picture with her head cropped out.
I remember this being a major problem on the depression/loneliness/mental illness subs. Lots of young people, particularly girls, make posts complaining about how they thought they found friends online after someone dms them only to end up being some crypto scam or creep
Yes, every subreddit that is mainly for women has this problem.
I don't go on reddit that much. Good riddance too
What balls these freaks have when she states she's gay on her profile.
I just hung out with her earlier and the messages she showed me were both pathetic and weird.
I'm sure glad I had sisters man. I think it instilled in me a respect for women a lot of guys don't have
Lol these people think with their dicks. You can literally put “I am a serial killer and will castrate you and eat it” on your profile, but if there’s even a hint of boobs mentioned then some guy will send his dick pic and address
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Yes. Not subs just reddit as a whole is filled with stalker freaks. Its very gross.
Yes this is most of the internet if you let slip that you're a girl/woman
That sucks. I've always been friends with you and talked about monster hunter without feeling the need to be like 'sup bb' I know you are they/them also.
I'm sure it has something to do with growing up with little sisters that's helped me not like.... view women as like... pleasure boxes like some deeply disturbed guys do and see they're sentient beings with agency like myself.
Can confirm you have always been cool to me 👍
We are going to be the main two people posting in the monster hunter wilds thread. When that game launches.
Your posts about monster hunter world got me to start playing monster hunter rise again lol
Hell yeah my Monster Hunter obsession spreads! 
I'm sure it has something to do with growing up with little sisters
Interestingly there is a bunch of research into birth order and psychology showing that both men and women differ in behaviour based on having older/younger brothers and/or sisters. For example I remember some research showing boys with older sisters are less competitive.
Anecdotal but it's very obvious that people with sisters are different in behaviour to those without them. They have a less misogynistic vibe going on. This is offset though by the fact they're also well practiced at being annoying in ways others aren't rofl. Can always tell when a guy has practice annoying their little sister because they carry it into the way they interact with other women like their little sister.
Finding out there's a big boobs problem sub is pretty funny
I'm assuming the issues there are a lot more real like back pain than the big dick problems where it's just a bunch of sad men bragging about their supposedly big dick?
Yeah, also bras get progressively more expensive the larger they need to be.
Like 50$ bras for DDD is actually a good deal. You can pay almost 80$ for a good bra of that size.
it's expensive to have big tits now, because of woke
Death to America
Funnily enough, having tiny boobs can also be expensive if you're looking for bras. I remember back when my cup size was AAA during my transition, and I needed a bra, I couldn't find a single physical store selling anything smaller than A. There were only a couple online shops selling these bras at exorbitant prices.
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idk there are probably real issues the actual big dick havers have, maybe idk. also finding a bra that actually fits is a Sisyphean task. my aunt can only wear special-ordered bras. I've yet to find a sports bra I can run in without pain. i think i tore the cartilage in my ribs falling down the stairs a few years ago and now if if my tits swing around too vigorously sometimes i think it retears and it hurts to breath all over again for a few days and i gotta sleep in a sports bra. im gonna go to the doctor when i have insurance next year,
Jesus chris I'm sorry man. Reminds me of my sister.
I hope the doctor can find something that works for you pal 👍
Thanks, I should have health insurance again after I get married this year, and at some point, I want to get these suckers massively reduced/ off So that will be nice.
Not a problem! I can't imagine having something that irritates me attached to my body.
I also had an ex with a larger bust in high school. I remember she'd tell me about the creepy boomer aged dudes staring at her anytime she went out to stores and shit. I'm sure you're tired of the creeps as well
oh yeah, its nonstop, its funny though, the stares have increased over time, but they approach me far less, so maybe ive mastered looking intimidating! also ive lost like 30 something pounds from like 2 years ago, and i changed my bc, so they are significantly smaller, thank goodness. still too big for a binder though, just looks like a giant uniboob.
Also the lovely sexual harassment from a young age and some women are mean to people with big boobs as if we can help it
Yeah, she just has had problems finding finding bras and shit since middle school. I'm sure it's one of those cathartic places to post where people all have a similar issue.
Kind of like this place and myself. If I have a question you guys always answer me fairly quickly and compassionately.
Either way I remember dudes being creepy in high school as well. Got into a couple fist fights over it.
So it goes I suppose, you stick up for your siblings.
What even would big dick problems be(for a man)? It being harder to wear tight pants, and it being painful for some people to have sex with you?
being painful for some people to have sex with you
This is the only actual problem I believe. You know you have to keep the intercourse short otherwise it will be painful. You can always finish it off without penetration of course so it's not a huge problem, but it still hurts intimacy quite a bit.
Other than that:
- The penis can touch inside the toilet bowl when you sit on it, which isn't great hygienically.
- And if you go to the swimming pool with your class as a kid, your classmates will laugh at your bulge.
So nothing actually disabling unlike big boobs problems, just some annoyance and being limited in certain sexual practices. I've never heard of someone getting dick reduction surgery to fix their pain so it can't be that problematic.
This is all mostly true in my experiences. The sexual aspects being the most impactful and otherwise just being careful about how you dress, which is more of a slight inconvenience sometimes than an actual problem, but there are others.
- There's no such thing as a quickie because of how much warmup is required and then once you're down to business chafing becomes a serious issue very quickly if you're not careful.
- Most alternative sexual acts to PIV(and even that) are out of the question or difficult and unsatisfying with some women.
- You can't use standard condoms without risking breakage and need to use very expensive brands or custom order them(and they still don't fit right).
- Depending on how far up the spectrum you are, staying erect without medical help can be difficult, but this is more of a fringe issue.
- Wearing good underwear is required otherwise nothing is left to the imagination. For example, I generally can't wear sweatpants or swimwear in polite company without taking extra precautions. In a similar vein tight clothes also present a similar issue and are more uncomfortable.
- A lot of people don't realize the self esteem issues that usually come along with it. It sucks to literally have an otherwise great relationship ruined because you physically cannot have sex with a partner.
- A lot of men end up with weird dysmorphia issues. You don't even realize it's an issue until you're well into adulthood because porn has ruined people's expectations. If you're not 12 inches long, you're not big. I didn't even realize the extent of the problems it caused until I was in my late 20's because until that point I actually thought I was small...
- You will never receive any sympathy for any of these issues and talking about it will get you laughed at in most circles.
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One common complaint among sex workers is that guys with big dicks won’t listen or won’t believe them when they say it hurts because the guys just want to imitate what they see in porn
the guys just want to imitate what they see in porn
that's a much more general problem
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Yeah that's just how it is. Any sub where it's mostly women posting, pretty much every post will get the OP DMs from random guys who didn't read their post or profile at all. You could go on one of those subs and include in your post "by the way I'm a 7 foot tall man with a disorder which causes me to constantly ooze blood from every orifice and a different condition which causes thick hair on every inch of skin" and you'd still get messages that begin with "hey bb girl ;)"
You just described a fetish tho
Desperate ass mofos
I used to post on a message board where girl-only subs were locked out by photo verification and were policed for harassment very heavily. It’s a shame r*ddit dgaf…
Sounds like that should be a standard for this kind of issue. That's pretty fuckin smart lol
I'm sure there's private subreddits that do this
absolutely hilarious title
Right? I'm gonna pretend the post body doesnt exist.
It's not really funny. It pissed me off hearing about it yesterday.
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Do all subreddits geared towards women have latent incel creepers stalking profiles?
Yes
You should try DMing all the women individually to let them know you support them
Do all subreddits geared towards women have latent incel creepers stalking profiles?
Yes. As long as I've been on it, Reddit has been bursting with creeps.
I remember how many redditors lost their shit when r/jailbait got banned. Times haven't changed that much.
The same thing happens in the r/bigdickproblems sub
Yes they do. I once asked in a fashion sub about the quality of a piece, and someone recommended I go to a particular female fashion sub to ask since the piece was popular there (or something of that nature)
So I went there and the first thing I saw was a pinned PSA about blocking DMs from guys, especially since much of the sub was on the younger side and these were pedos
'What's up? I'm 6'1."
I have a 31 inch brain circumference babe
Since everyone already said "yes", one of my favourites I can conjure from memory is that there was a serious problem with freaky stalker guys on the womens' autism subs, aspergirls and autisminwomen and such. Lot of enjoyable discourse there.
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