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"Why don't you want to come to my wedding?"

"I want to come but I can't afford a ticket overseas."

"Whatever, if you want to stay home and miss out on life that's your decision I guess."

Apparently me saying no to this wedding was the last straw for them, because they're always asking me to do things I can't afford and they don't seem to understand why I can't despite me telling them every time that I am poor. So now I'm the bad person because I'm totally being poor and "holding myself back" on purpose.

If they want to burn this bridge they can fuck right off. I've had enough of this shit.

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[–] AnarchoSnowPlow@midwest.social 55 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (16 children)

At my first internship my car's timing chain snapped on the bw parkway. Harrowing is... An accurate description of the wait for a tow.

It took weeks to get a new engine, luckily my dad was willing and able to pay for a used engine to be installed and I could use public transit to get to work from my newly acquired sublet.

I was doing the "subway to bus to half mile walk" thing for two months or so (almost the whole internship).

I mentioned that I needed to leave at 345 to catch the 4 o'clock bus to a senior coworker and he asked why. I explained the car situation and he said "why don't you just get a new car, they're much nicer."

It was the first time I realized that there were people who simply assumed that driving a 20 year old shitbox was an aesthetic choice or something.

Mind blowing.

[–] Sickos@hexbear.net 30 points 2 months ago (15 children)

AAAAAAAAAAAA I have had this said to me so many times and some folks just DO NOT GET IT. Like, I am a lucky person who probably could afford a new car, but I'm also a {mechanic|hobby}. I fix my 25 year old rusted out truck because I FUCKING LOVE THAT TRUCK. Which, shit, I guess is an aesthetic choice. Shit! I'm the reason your coworker was a prick!

That said, it's, like, A LOT more reasonable to keep a shitbox running than to sign up for fucking years of car payments on something shiny that also might just fucking break AND that I'd have no fucking clue how to fix.

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Which, shit, I guess is an aesthetic choice. Shit! I'm the reason your coworker was a prick!

joker-stare Me going out to buy a 48 year old Lada.

[–] pnwml@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 2 months ago

To be honest, if I didn't live in Amerikkka and instead somewhere where Ladas were common I'd do it. Aesthetic, simple, cheap, and no built in capitalist spyware.

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