And how meaningful is the difference? I have told my best friend a couple of times that I love her , and she thinks it’s infatuation and that it will come to pass. In our two years knowing each other, we have been through and done so much together.

she has her reasons to say and think this way, her life is incredibly complex. She says she really does believe it and she says she has a better perspective since the feeling is familiar to her since she’s a girl. I obviously think differently but I have to defer to her at the moment.

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[–] DavidGarcia@feddit.nl 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

let me take wild shot into the dark

something something she's right something something repetition compulsion something something you don't know what it means to genuinely care for people because you have never experienced it yourself something something makes you a horrible partner something something interpersonal therapy

[–] gueybana@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Huh.

I feel like I can read your comment in several different ways, some of which I can probably agree with. Can you elaborate.