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[–] REgon@hexbear.net 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

But the reason she is so fondly remembered is that in the big picture she was pretty much always right

I don't really agree with this. The reason she is remembered fondly is because a lot of users who disliked her schtick left - and that wasn't just transphobes. She made the site way less inclusive for ND people, she made it a hostile space where you were unsure about what was going on. This turned people off. When she made her first "I'm leaving" post there were plenty of people celebrating it - and getting banned for it.

This was the basic cycle of TC69 handling any issue the end result was that she banned people until they no longer complained. Thinking that if you hear no issue, there is no issue. This is certainly true, but it also means you lose a lot of people. ~~The way the VCJ thing was handled was fucking abysmal.~~
I'm glad she made it a better place for trans people who she liked. I'm sad she was not interested in just making the site a better place.

edit: Others who remember the VCJ thing better have corrected me.

[–] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I actually must politely disagree. The VCJ mistakes were all made at the beginning by other people and TC69 came in at the end after multiple admin resignations, including dev admin resignations, and did clean up. It was very bleak. People genuinely were not sure if the whole site was done. The only way that fire got put out is that a whole bunch of people who couldn't stop fighting got banned. I myself was probably an ass hair away from getting banned, but managed to shut the fuck up. IMO she tried to do the same here and did not pull it off.

[–] REgon@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Tbh I wasn't around for the very start of the VCJ thing, so I can't speak to that. I'd come back from a break. I've edited it

I was here for the whole thing comrade-stoic

[–] NewAcctWhoDis@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

The way the VCJ thing was handled was fucking abysmal.

And then people revise history to pretend that vegans were perfectly happy until VCJ showed up when that absolutely was not the case.

[–] REgon@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I sadly had been away and then came back in the midst of the VCJ thing, so I don't know what was going on in the time leading up to it. But yeah we do love revising history here, it's another bad trait.

[–] NewAcctWhoDis@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago

I remembered that a few months ago I grabbed some old links from the debacle, for a bit of context.