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I’m gonna be honest, I’m not asking for a friend, I’m asking for myself. Our daughter (24) married this man (65) in September. She herself stated money was the main reason, and he knows it but it doesn’t bother him. Both my husband & I are having a very hard time getting used to the idea.

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[–] Illuminostro@lemmy.world -5 points 8 hours ago (3 children)

It's sad that none of you realize that none of this is true, and it's a troll for attention.

[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I think that most or all of us understand that any post like this is suspect. It’s just more fun to play along than shit on everything.

Condescending to us just makes you look pathetic, not smart.

[–] Illuminostro@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

I care about your opinion of me. It's very important.

[–] CluckN@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago

What makes you think they are trolling? Their answers are grounded and are providing context when needed. A troll would include details about a gold coin vault that he swims in.

[–] r0ertel@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

How is it a troll for attention? What kind of attention? Does it really matter on the internet?

True or not, it's really only a relatively new problem and only in western cultures (to my limited knowledge.) It wasn't that long ago in Europe where kids, specifically girls, had a mate chosen for them, especially in upper classes. In India, it's still a prevalent tradition. It's really only western cultures that have the "love conquers all" ideal. Personally, I find it fascinating to talk to people who are successful and happy in an arranged marriage.