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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.

Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.

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Expect to receive feedback about your posts, they might even be negative.

Make sure you follow this instance's code of conduct. In other words we won't allow bellyaching about being sanctioned for hate speech or bigotry.


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OK peeps, I am seeing a lot of flamewars lately which go off-topic of this comm. I am also getting dozens of reports about people reporting each other for "rudeness" or "trolling". I don't want this comm to start becoming a drama haven, so I want to try and prevent people getting worked up like this.

What do you think about me starting to deploy strategic 1-day bans for people who I notice are getting into flamewars? If not, what else do you suggest to help people remain civil?

Don't just upvote/downvote. I won't take these into account, I want actual comments about this to better make a decision.

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[–] hendrik@palaver.p3x.de 16 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

Well, this is drama heaven because it's for users who aren't legible to post in fedidrama (because they're involved themselves) and then they end up here. And IMO the posts kind of set the tone. You often start out with a negative impression after reading the post, and then you're likely to be negative. And it doesn't help that other comments are negative or low quality as well... Then it's super easy to drop what's left and just shitpost.

I'm not sure if I want to continue reading anyways. It's several posts a day of people whining about something they brought upon themselves. Often something completely insignificant like one removed post/comment or a one day time-out from shitposting. And half the people don't listen or get anything, neither does OP, and the commenters just flame about arbitrary things, or attack each other for their strongly held opinions... I'd say a bit more moderation would be worth a try. But don't listen to me, I'm probably not the target audience of this community.

[–] millie@beehaw.org 1 points 2 days ago

Is that a thing? That's what used to happen with SubredditDrama like 15 years ago. I wonder if it's the same people.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

People love a good circle jerk, this is a genuine fedi content source, and it serves transparency purposes which other social don't even have...

People who don't like can just block it.

So unless bad faith behavior like reporting people endlessly is happening why shut down engagement albeit sometimes low quality

It is rather ironic that sub about mod abuse is getting abused

Hmmm

[–] hendrik@palaver.p3x.de 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I think you got it down to the exact issue at hand: Do we want moderated communities, or do we want a free speech platform without limits. I would prefer the former, and I think you're arguing for the latter. That's kind of fundamentally incompatible. At least on some levels I can't see how we'd reach an agreement here. There is one way, and you brought it up, and that's technical means. Have the software separate us into distinct spaces so I don't have to read low quality posts, hear people whining about stupid things, and I get just tech-related stuff in a tech community, and all other spam and off-topic ramblings get removed.

I'm not really for unmoderated platforms. We've seen several attempts at that fail miserably. And we kind of have 4chan for circle-jerks, you could as well just go there. But I'm liberal. I'd like to just peacfully co-exist with people holding different opinions. If that's possible.

[–] Ice@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

You can have moderated communities without every community having to cater every user. Personally, I think that's part of the beauty of federation. Some comms & instances can be locked down and heavily moderated to create "safe spaces", others can encourage open discussion with minimal moderation.

[–] hendrik@palaver.p3x.de 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

It's just very hard to agree on the exact amount of moderation, because that's individual preference. And we'd need to agree on which community has which policy and make it more obvious to the user. I think that's another issue which gets obvious when browsing this community. A lot of people complain about something getting removed, while the community has clearly stated the rules. So I'd say if we go with that, most posts here are automatically invalid complaints...

My point is just, this is really hard to impossible to implement this. Due to the way things work (as of now), and human nature.