Ich hab sowas auch noch nicht erlebt. Hierzulande sind Wirte eher mehr "bodenständige" Leute und neigen dazu ihre Probleme selbst zu lösen, auf "kurzem Dienstweg". Ich bin in letzter Zeit nicht mehr so regelmäßig in Kneipen, denke aber das ist immernoch so.

Der Tourist hätte auch mal 5 Minuten seinen Lonely Planet aufschlagen können und sich über die lokalen Gepflogenheiten informieren können... Naja. Ich denke das "unkooperativ und renitent" gegenüber den Beamten macht dann im Endeffekt das Hausverbot. Die hatten wahrscheinlich auch keinen Bock da antanzen zu müssen.

Es gibt doch genug Schnellimbisse, die Döner, Pizza und Asia haben... Oder 'ne andere bekloppte Mischung aus allen Küchen der Welt... Vielleicht fragst du dort mal nach. Die machen dir das bestimmt.

Und wir hatten mal ne Pizzeria die ihr pizza.de komisch eingestellt hatten. Dort konnte man die Extra-Toppings, die eigentlich für auf die Pizzen gedacht waren auch auf Salat und so anwenden... FYI: Die rufen einen an wenn mensch es übertreibt und einen Chefsalat mit extra Bolognesesauce oder so bestellt... Machen die einem aber.

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I've been using YunoHost for some time. Cosmos seems good, too. Both do most of the stuff for you and should come with documentation. I think that's the way to go if you can't set it all up yourself, or lack time to maintain it.

I've also used Docker containers and plain Debian. I use NGinx as a reverse proxy.

I document things in text files (markdown). At some point it'd like to upload them with something like mkdocs or to a wiki. But since it's just me, having them just sitting in a directory on my laptop is fine.

Use something that's super accessible so you'll actually use it. I often just dump random thoughts or commands I executed into the textfiles and I have my text editor open all the time anyways. And then on the server I eiter use Ctrl+R and search through the shell history, or search in my documents. Doesn't need to be fancy, grep -rni "keyword" does it for me.

Was soll denn in den Döner, wenn kein Kalb?

Nice. I think we simultaneously wrote very similar comments. But I don't use my Jellifin to mimick live TV. Either I choose some movie or the next episode of my new favorite TV show, or I just waste my time on YouTube. I also used to watch Netflix, but I think they removed most of the interesting content.

Wow, MythTV is still around? I used that like 12 years ago. I've stopped watching live TV since. Except for some of the regional program and news that's part of public broadcasting.

Lots of photos are edited. Probably almost all more professional ones. It certainly also doesn't help that AI enhancement is now default in newer phones.

And it's bound to be difficult. We try to use AI to judge if an image is real. But on the other hand we train the AI image generators to generate more and more realistic images.I don't think we can have both at the same time because they contradict each other.

OP gave some clues, though. I think the comment with "London" was meant to be a joke. But it's true that this kind of surveillance is common in Britain, some parts of Asia and some random big cities. And OP knows how to write the time of the day properly, so they're certainly not from the USA. 😉

Yeah, sometimes perceived reality and the real reality are two things. And there are places where you can't walk on the streets as a woman. I'm not sure if it's about fear in your case. Or just because you broke your promise but there isn't any fear involved.

Anyways, in relationships general advice is to talk to each other. Ask her what's bothering her. Maybe it's a pretend reason and there is something deeper that's bothering her. Maybe this was the proper reason. Maybe she's a resentful person. Maybe she just had a bad day.

Unless it happens regularly or there are other factors to it, I wouldn't necessarily attribute it to malice or be a manipulation strategy...

Yes. In professional settings that means with that degree you can expect a certain salary, and the position pays considerably less.

Colloquially it's also used for: You'll be bored with a task. Or waste your potential.

I don't think it's gaslighting. Gaslighting is manipulating someone into questioning their perception of reality. This is being angry at someone.

I can't really relate. Is it really that dangerous where you live? We probably live in different countries but I don't have CCTV in the residential area where I live. And usually in the summer, it's still bright enough at 10pm an people are still around and it's safe enough for women to walk home alone. At least in most places.