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This blows... Wtf is that a thing anyways, what a stupid, fascist way of censorship. It's like you getting cattle marked for life in a social media and I didn't do anything. I didn't insulted anyone or attacked any minority, it sucks because the communities I followed about the media I consume are there. And only them hold the "market" of forum like groups since Google plus death. No other app comes close to them. Posting here is like posting in a desert for that media I liked.

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[–] jeena@piefed.jeena.net 13 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Some people don't like how you behave. That could have two reasons:

  1. You behave badly
  2. The people in those communities don't like your behavior

And anything in between.

I got banned from r/Korea back in the day because I linked to my own peertube instance, they didn't like it.

On Lemmy I'm trying to get the !korea@lemmy.funami.tech going but as you can see it's only posts made by me :D but sometimes, very seldom there is a comment and some likes or to a lesser extend dislikes. I think most of them are people who browse /all and by chance see those posts there.

But if I don't post then there is no content about Korea at all ^^

Anyway, remember that you can't change other peoples behavior, only yours.

[–] Manifish_Destiny@lemmy.world 7 points 8 hours ago

Yo i see your shit at the top of 6hr all the time. You're the only reason I know what's going on with their president. Keep up the excellent work. Sorry you aren't getting the engagement you're looking for.

[–] Platypus@lemmings.world 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

I didn't do anything wrong. I don't need to change anything, unfortunately I'm the weak one in this situation and I don't have the power to change that, what baffles me is that people let them get away with that.