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This community is for people with depression. Memes and general discussion about depression are encouraged and welcome.

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[–] brrt@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 day ago

From my perspective there’s two issues being addressed:

  1. People expect depressed people to always look depressed. So in turn if you are smiling and/or having a good moment people assume you can’t be depressed.
  2. The prevalence of toxic positivity in our society. „How are you?“ having to be answered with „good/great“ or something similar in most circumstances. An expectation of upholding an image and/or not burdening others.

These two might also feed into each other. A depressed person might not feel seen and/or might feel like a burden. Which most likely worsens their depression.