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This has some real strong "well if she didn't want to get raped she shouldn't have been dressing like that" energy
It absolutely doesn't. The comment doesn't assign blame to OP at all, it's a recommendation that continuing to engage with this person will just cause more problems - a pretty normal thing to acknowledge when it comes to dealing with petty, weird people who just want to mess with strangers.
Nothing happened here except a small project website temporarily lagging. Nobody has been assaulted here, which makes this an extremely different situation than that.