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[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 96 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Except that we’re not plates, and most of us aren’t so fragile that we cannot recover from being emotionally distraught.

[–] edgemaster72@lemmy.world 51 points 2 months ago

Look at Mr./Ms./Mx. "Has-their-shit-together" over here

[–] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 22 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The plate represents trust in that analogy. You can repair it but it'll never be whole.

[–] 30p87@feddit.org 2 points 2 months ago

It'll be wholely fucked

[–] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Most people are exactly neither equipped nor mature enough to recover from deep emotional trauma

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world -3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Most people don’t experience that, and if that were the case, it probably wouldn’t be what this screenshot is about. Not every slight is trauma, and it’s silly to act like everything is traumatic.

[–] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Most people don’t experience that, and if that were the case

It is exactly the case. We have psychological ailments on the rise

it probably wouldn’t be what this screenshot is about.

Screenshot: "Hey, emotions, once broken, cannot be mended". You: "that's definitely not what this is about".

Genuine question: how does it feel to live a constant lie you are telling yourself?

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I think you’re the one lying to yourself. Mental health issues are on the rise, but it’s not like most of the population sick (about 23% in the USA, according to NIH), and people exaggerate ALL THE TIME, that text could be a teenager blowing the smallest prank out of proportion.

Though, with all the people like you nowadays, I’m sure y’all would turn a falling ice cream cone into trauma, and ruin a friendship because the falling ice cream landed funny & your friend laughed.

[–] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Lol

but it’s not like most of the population sick (about 23% in the USA

diagnosed. now watch this: . This is not my field of expertise, so I won't even try to build the whole picture. Remind me again, who is lying here?

that text could be a teenager blowing the smallest prank out of proportion.

I don't care about the factual origin. The warning is true, and the idiotic attempt to run from the problem with "my plate is pastic" is exactly what you are doing

I’m sure y’all would turn a falling ice cream cone into trauma

Thanks for assumption about my psychological structure, now fuck off, idiot

[–] MotoAsh@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Wow, someone still has some pieces to pick up before they can be mature about emotional vulnerability...

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago

Just because the warning is true doesn’t mean it applies to everything. That leads to blowing everything out of proportion. That was my point, that the screenshot could just as much be blowing something out of proportion.

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Clearly someone was never cheated on

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Is there lore for this screenshot?

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

I also want to know. But no, it's possible it's about losing someone's socks.

But my brain went to cheating first, and that's not an easy recovery.

[–] VindictiveJudge@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

Yeah I was thinking of this too. Even if your “plate” is broken, it CAN be made whole again & it can become greater than it was before.