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Good women are young, quiet, have pretty long hair (never dyed a unnatural colour though!) and never speak up about being mistreated, ever. You want to complain about a genuine problem? Sorry, you're a Karen. Ask people to social distance? Karen. Nicely tell people to please be quiet during a movie? Karen. Ripped off by corporate greed and want a refund? Karen.

Be silent, be feminine and behave, woman.

It sucks because it actually used to describe real harrassment that black service workers experience. Now it's just "Mouthy mom aged women with short dyed hair"

I've even seen a male black service worker be called a "male Karen" I shit you not.

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[–] FlakesBongler@hexbear.net 74 points 3 days ago (4 children)

I mean, Woke used to mean "being aware of systemic oppression" and now it's shorthand for "anything not white, straight and male"

Slang always gets coopted by those in power

[–] OldSoulHippie@hexbear.net 46 points 3 days ago (2 children)

To the same end, "Fake News" was a term used heavily by liberals in response to the enshitification of right wing news around 2015. When Trump first started gaining momentum, there were a bunch of news stories that got amplified that were completely made up or used dodgy means to exploit statistics and stuff. The right started shouting it back to everything they didn't like and now it's theirs.

[–] Gosplan14_the_Third@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Pretty sure the term was popularized by Trump himself, who called a journalist "you are fake news".

The liberals then used it to basically replace previously common used words like disinformation, propaganda or simply hoax, to describe right wing slop of questionable veracity. While the right wing itself kept using it to claim liberals were the ones lying.

[–] OldSoulHippie@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago

I can believe that. The chain of custody is weird with stuff like that. I was mostly aware of it because we listened to not at work and I used to hear the host pretend to call people out with that term

[–] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago

before that "fake news" was the daily show with jon stewart

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 33 points 3 days ago (2 children)

It fucking sucks. It's indoctrinating a whole new generation of sexism

[–] FlakesBongler@hexbear.net 25 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I don't run into too many kids these day, but when I do, I usually have to play the "That's a really fucked up thing to say" card

[–] Chump@hexbear.net 8 points 3 days ago

A tale as old as time

[–] Sinisterium@hexbear.net 15 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

People believed that they would just let the new generations grow up without indoctrinating all the isms on them?

Do they think boomers were born racist/sexist?

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 14 points 3 days ago (2 children)

True, I was naive to think humanity was making progress doomer

[–] Sinisterium@hexbear.net 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Well they do now. The fact that people are ever more aware of facts like this is progress from ten years ago.

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 9 points 3 days ago

That's a silver lining at least hopium

[–] tocopherol@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago

I think we are still overall, it's hard to tell when we can't see outside of the present. One example that gives me some faith is that according to stats I've seen the BLM protests had more popular approval in the US than the civil rights marches and MLK at the time.

[–] Sinisterium@hexbear.net 24 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Wasnt woke first used by black americans to refer to being aware of the race construct? Similar thing happened to Karen, its origin comes from primarily black american women working in customer service jobs and using it to refer to entitled white customers who use the “white woman’s tears/distress/discomfort” as a tool to exort her power?

[–] tocopherol@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

Yes, it was used in that way as early as the 20s I think, or earlier. On the wiki page about "Karen" they mention that:

In African-American culture, there is a history of calling difficult white women or those who "weaponize" their position by a generic pejorative name.[6] In the antebellum era (1815–1861), "Miss Ann" was used.[7] In the early 1990s, "Becky" was used.[8] As late as 2018, before the use of "Karen" caught on, alliterative names matching particular incidents were used, such as "Barbecue Becky", "Cornerstore Caroline", and "Permit Patty".

[–] boiledfrog@hexbear.net 10 points 3 days ago

Just keep changing words faster and faster

Woke? You mean shalazombabom