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so who is playin deltarune? i finished it through chapter 4 and now i'm gonna get both types of run in the can so i can pretend i'm not back to waiting a year for the next part. how bout those new secret bosses? how bout that damn

spoilerroaring knight?

it's nice to have parts of this game be as hard as sands undertale.

also, susie is my favorite, she's precious, everyone drop your favorite susie moments in the comments


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[โ€“] thirstyskyline@hexbear.net 24 points 2 days ago (25 children)

hi everyonee

trying to post shit for the billionth time cause im shy and dead inside and trying to externalize and stop lurking

i am transfem but not on estrogen and i hate admitting that, i want to hopefully get on DIY in a good bit but that's another issue for me because of various factors ill probably mention later on, tldr distrust in myself, insecure about some other things

I am a ML and love my politics, although the past year has been rough on me and I, dont know, feel like I have lost my "spark". Feel out of life, trying to learn to be a person again, which is why I lurk here so much and read about how others do, feels like insight for me

other things about me, computer nerd, very sociable but awkward, have a loving gf that i love a lot

i find it hard to bond with people cause mostly everyone else has better things to do but id love to meet people i get along with on here (i talk too much if prompted)

also im very prone to selfhating and dysphoria like 80% of the time so yay

[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Welcome welcome! We don't bite~

I totally get the shyness to start posting thing, normally I'm like that too. Glad you were able to work past it this time though, and I hope you'll enjoy your time here.

Starting estrogen is big, even if you're entirely certain like I was it can still feel a little overwhelming and even scary. I can't imagine how that'd be worse when you find it hard to trust yourself too. Fwiw, it's okay to not be on it yet, I know it sucks, especially if you want it; I spent my first 3 years as a trans woman with no E either. But it doesn't make you less trans or less fundamentally fem. I do hope you can get on it as soon as you feel ready for it, though.

(i talk too much if prompted)

Not an issue lmfao, a lot of us are yappers, especially me and my absurdly long ass posts.

I have this ambivalent attitude towards estrogen as well I like the mental changes but at the same time I hate puberty and I dont like the idea of going through a second puberty lol

Thank you!!

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