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I like this approach. "funny meme" aside, I think it is a good way of showing how much a certain language can affect how other people think and feel about a subject. Just read it THAT way and "being neurotypical" suddenly sounds like a disorder that isn't fully compatible with the public, doesn't it?

We live in a world that isn't exactly kind to people on the spectrum. It is loud, flashy, hectic, overwhelming, unrewarding but you're still expected to work like a cog in a machine, despite having fewer and fewer places where you'd actually "fit in" without grinding gears, and whenever there is some sort of public talk about that topic, it always, always sounds like the affected person is the problem and personally responsible for fixing themselves, when a no small part of "not fitting in" is due to society itself. Maybe a change in language is due to remove that stigma.

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[–] eatthecake@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago (5 children)

I'm beginning to get the impression that people with autism reaaaally don't like people witbout autism.

[–] deaf_fish@lemm.ee 15 points 11 months ago

I'm married to one. They don't dislike people without autism. They just don't like the social norms and expectations that cause them harm.

This is a venting post. I don't think anyone is interested in harming non autistic people.

[–] gmtom@lemmy.world 14 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Hey, I love neurotypicals, they're great, hell one of my freinds younger brother has neurotypicalism and he's such a quirky lil goofball but he can actually behave himself most of the time too, we get along really well.

[–] Mango@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago
[–] randomdeadguy@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

There may be a sore spot after centuries of dehumanizing abuse.

[–] Kedly@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago

Tbh because I've had to adapt to a neurotyp society in my own way, different from how other autistic people have had to adapt in THEIR own ways, I actually get along better with Nuerotyps better than other Autists, and no, fuck changing my terminology I dont mean Autist in a derogatory sense