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[–] ook_the_librarian@lemmy.world 10 points 9 months ago (1 children)

That wasn't sexual assault. If you want a lesson to take away for what he actually did wrong here: he attacked the reason for rejection. It's a natural thing to do. But that's really the only thing wrong here.

Going in for a peck is fine. Planting one before they react wouldn't be. But taking rejection gracefully is nearly impossible. Let's try to be better.

[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 8 points 9 months ago (1 children)

That was aggressive and scary to watch. Not sure why you're downplaying it.

[–] ook_the_librarian@lemmy.world -1 points 9 months ago (4 children)

It was just a dude answering questions he was asked. I don't want to hang out with the guy.

I get a little worried about calling something like that "sexual assault". It plays into the "can't say anything anymore" crowd's hands.

[–] MaoZedongers 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

It was just a guy answering questions until he grabbed him and went for a kiss, don't pretend that didn't happen.

[–] erev@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

Yeah I agree he came on strong but it seems that's his vibe in the scene and he was mostly respectful when rejected. i think some people's biases are showing

[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago

If the victim was a woman I think any decent person would see it. Instead since he's a man, somehow he's expected not to be intimidated. I absolutely would've been

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago

It was at least sexual harassment.