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I don't think the place is here, but is there a safe space for leftists to talk about sex and dating? (hexbear.net)

submitted 4 months ago by Magician@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net

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I understand that Hexbear has young and vulnerable people, making it potentially unsafe for something as personal and private as sexuality, but I was wondering if there are many online spaces that are friendly and nonjudgmental for that.

There are topics I'd like to discuss like classism in hookup culture/kink communities, but I don't want to make people uncomfortable. I also can't account for wreckers and just general topic derailment.

Also in general, are there considerations I should take when broaching these topics in online spaces?

I feel like we're doing a good job of protecting people from sex pests and I don't want to make a safe place unsafe.

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[–] frankfurt_schoolgirl@hexbear.net 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

What kind of discord are you in?

[–] StalinStan@hexbear.net 3 points 4 months ago

I feel like lots of discords I have been in just have that mullet experience where there is just a party going on in the back someplace. Is it just me?