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I want to go out to small metal shows where my predator might be. How should I go about this? (hexbear.net)
submitted 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) by HexaSnoot@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net
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It would be deeply triggering to see him and he is extremely manipulative, plus he has friends that attend the scene. Some of them were doing meth last I saw them over ten years ago.

If I make friends, they could easily link back to him through themselves or multiple people. I seriously cannot tolerate that. I don't want him knowing anything about me and my life.

Do you think I can manage being part of a small scene with these conditions?

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[–] FourteenEyes@hexbear.net 17 points 7 months ago

Ultimately only you can really tell if you can handle it. I would say go with a friend, have multiple exit plans, and don't force yourself to stay in a situation where you're uncomfortable. If you catch wind he might be there and you don't think you can handle the stress, bail. That's what I'd do, anyway.