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[–] frankfurt_schoolgirl@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Ok but maybe I just need more of an emotional connection what men instead of just doing it with somebody I've known for a week? Maybe then I'd actually want to see him naked?

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago

I guess being demi for just men is a possibility, but my outside read is that the only negative of that hook up story was him being a guy. there's always the possibility that he just wasn't your type tho

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah I generally had issues with small flings, I really didn't like them. Could be it thinking-about-it Kinda hard to tell in situations like that. Maybe some more cuddles?

You're probably right. I'm in my late 20s but sometimes i feel like a teenager because i lost so much time to dysphoria and dissociation. Maybe I need to take things slower and hooking up with like professional chasers is not the move. Not sure where I find men who want to go one cute dates with an awkward clocky trans girl but whatever.