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[–] SPOOSER 35 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (7 children)

I think the fundamental issue with this is that it presumes that our understanding of morality is perfect. If an all-knowing, all-powerful God acted contrary to our understanding of morality, or allowed something to happen contrary to our understanding of morality it would make sense for us to perceive that as undermining our understanding of God, making him imperfect. An all-knowing, all-encomposing God may have an understanding that we as mortals are incapable of understanding or perceiving.

It presumes to know a perfect morality while also arguing that morality can be subjective. It doesn't make sense, just like an irrational belief in a God. I think the best way to go about this is to allow people to believe how they want and stop trying to convince people one way another about their beliefs. People get to believe differently and that is not wrong.

Edit: holy shit those reddit comments are full of /r/iamverysmart material lmfao

[–] DarthFrodo@lemmy.world 28 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

I don't know if I misunderstood you, but "making millions of people suffer horribly and needlessly for no fault of their own might just be the most ethical thing there is, you never know, so let's not draw any conclusions about God allowing that to happen." just seems like a rather unconvincing line of thought to me. It's essentially just saying "God is always right, accept that"

I guess god just gave us the moral understanding that his (in)actions are insanely immoral to test our unquestioned loyalty to him, or he just likes a little trolling. Or maybe he just doesn't exist...

[–] ThunderWhiskers@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

Any God that could prevent the suffering of millions and still allow it is not a God worthy of your worship.

[–] SPOOSER 1 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Or maybe they have an afterlife of imeserable bliss to offset the injustice they experienced in life. There can always be a different reason thought of, but to conclude to one or the other side is illogical. As humans we want to know definitively and either side accepts their position as truth because it's most comfortable. But in reality it's ok to accept people's beliefs one way or another because at the end of the day we're just trying to make sense of our illogical and improbable existence.

[–] Mrs_deWinter@feddit.org 13 points 4 months ago (1 children)

A shame you didn't reply to my comment from earlier, since the afterlife argument is used quite often in this instance while not actually resolving the underlying problem:

One answer I’ve heard from religious people is that life after death will make up for it all. But that doesn’t make sense either. If heaven/paradise/whatever puts life into such small perspective that our suffering doesn’t matter, then our lives truly don’t mean anything. It’s just a feelgood way of saying god couldn’t care less about child cancer - because in the grand scheme of things it’s irrelevant anyway.

[–] SPOOSER -4 points 4 months ago (2 children)

You're missing my point. It doesn't matter. None of it makes sense. It makes just as much sense to believe in a god as it does to not believe in one, because at the end of the day it's about an individuals coping with the unfairness of life, the inexplicable natute of existence and consciousness, and the inevitability of death. It's about fulfilling an individuals need for purpose and place and whatever makes you most comfortable and gives you peace at the end of the day, fine. Trying to convince one another's personal fantasies for our purpose in life is like trying to prove someone's favorite food shouldn't be their favorite food. It's all personal.

So this kind of post confuses me. Who gives a fuck what people believe at the end of the day as long as it's not hurting someone else and it gives the person peace. If one person's beliefs don't make sense to you or bring you peace, then you should believe something else. I don't get this hating on believers or non believers. Who cares?

[–] Mrs_deWinter@feddit.org 5 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

All fair. You're simply having an entirely different conversation here. Should we respect people's beliefs and religious affiliations? Sure. Don't think anyone in this thread doubted that (or I haven't seen anyone at least). It's just not the point.

Maybe the questions of "what's the truth" or "how far does logic get us in terms of religious statements" are irrelevant to you. Then this post simply isn't for you. Some people, me included, find those questions interesting and worthwhile - although completely separate from your issue about respecting beliefs, illogical as they may be.

As far as this second issue goes: Based on the premises that bad stuff is indeed happening and people are suffering from it, the Epicurean paradox in my opinion very neatly explains why the abrahamic god cannot exist. I have no problem with people believing in him anyway; people also believe in fairies and ghosts and Santa Claus. Good for them. In the past I've occasionally encountered attempts to answer the Epicurean paradox from a religious perspective that struck me as very unkind; especially the attempt to belittle human suffering in itself. They come down to the notion that the suffering in this life is simply not that relevant in the grand scheme of things; it will be compensated or forgotten in the afterlife anyway; it's necessary; it's part of gods plan; or in any other way either actually good or just not that important. So in short: We get ignorant towards human suffering in order to avoid the paradox of it's existence. But by far most religious people don't think like that. They don't think about the Epicurean paradox at all, or they simply don't think it through. And that's okay.

It's also okay not to find any of this interesting. To me personally, my life, my relationship with myself and with the world, those questions were immensely important. Which is why I occasionally still participate in those conversations.

[–] kmaismith@lemm.ee 2 points 4 months ago

To add to your point, one of the reasons to have this conversation is to get everyone on the same page when trying to function as a community with a wide variety of beliefs: people are allowed to believe what they want to believe, but once someone starts trying to convince others their religious framework serves the “one true god” this framework exists to shut that down.

[–] Zacryon@feddit.org 3 points 4 months ago

as long as it’s not hurting someone else

That's the problem with most organised religions.

[–] Zacryon@feddit.org 2 points 4 months ago

Or maybe they have an afterlife of imeserable bliss to offset the injustice they experienced in life. There can always be a different reason thought of, but to conclude to one or the other side is illogical.

It's important to set clear definitions of what one understands as "truth", "reality" and therefore "logical" to be able to have a meaningful discussion about this. And on the level of credibility, believing in stuff one religion preaches is as much worth as the other religion which at the end of the day is worth shit as there is no way to verify those. If I would say Iwe were giant pink elephants, hopping around on the moon and only imagining the world around us as we believe it to be, there would be no way to prove or disprove this as it is unverifyable in its nature.

Therefore, I prefer to label conceptions as truths which can be proven by the scientific method as its the best tool we have to produce verifiable facts about us and the world around us. Even if that would be an illusion, it's at least a reasonable attempt.
I'd rather admit that I don't know something than to just assume some sky grandpa or transcendal elephant goddess did it that way.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

An all-knowing, all-encomposing God may have an understanding that we as mortals are incapable of understanding or perceiving.

That being could make us understand.

[–] SPOOSER -2 points 4 months ago

Sure, but the concept itself is that whatever entity it is knows better, so the fact you don't undetstand has a purpose in the entity's "grand scheme".

What I'm saying is that it doesn't matter because as humans we're all just trying to make sense of ourselves and our place in the universe. The fact we exist is perplexing, and however we decide to deal with that fact is up to each individual, and that's ok.

[–] Mrs_deWinter@feddit.org 13 points 4 months ago (1 children)

If you skip the "evil" part and just start talking about "things that are bad for us humans" it's still true though. Sure, maybe child cancer is somehow moral or good from the perspective of an immortal entity, but in this case this entity is obviously operating on a basis that is completely detached from what's meaningful to us. Our lives, our suffering, our hardship - obviously none of all this is relevant enough to a potential god to do anything about it. Or he would, but can't. Hence the Epicurean paradox.

One answer I've heard from religious people is that life after death will make up for it all. But that doesn't make sense either. If heaven/paradise/whatever puts life into such small perspective that our suffering doesn't matter, then our lives truly don't mean anything. It's just a feelgood way of saying god couldn't care less about child cancer - because in the grand scheme of things it's irrelevant anyway.

To us humans, our lives aren't meaningless. Child cancer isn't irrelevant. We care about what's happening in this life and to the people we care about. How could a god be of any relevance to us if our understanding of importance, of value, of good and bad, is so meaningless to them? Why would we ever construct and celebrate organized religion around something so detached from ourselves? The answer is: We wouldn't.

Either god is relevant to our lives or he isn't. Reality tells us: He isn't. Prayers don't work, hardship isn't helped, suffering isn't stopped. Thought through to it's inevitable conclusion the Epicurean paradox is logical proof that god as humans used to think about him doesn't exist, and if something of the sorts exists, it's entirely irrelevant to us.

[–] SPOOSER -1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

You may be right.

If a god does exist, then bad things are part of its higher morality, or evil design. If a god doesn't exist, then who cares? Why waste so much energy disproving its existence? Just ignore the crazy religious people, and try and help make the world better. Those people may waste time praying, or not doing anything to help suffering and then act high and mighty, but that will NEVER stop. Religion has and always will exist. It's a way for people to cope with their insignificance, cope with unfairness, and grapple with the concept of death and accepting its inevitablity. If you want to feel and be better than them by actually helping humanity go for it. But at the end of the day people can believe what they will and that's ok. But whether or not there is a god, despising or looking down on people for believing is just as productive as you believe praying is.

[–] Zacryon@feddit.org 5 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Why waste so much energy disproving its existence?

I hope it doesn't annoy you, as I said in it other subcomment trees already, but I feel the need to say it for potential other readers:
Because organised religion has caused and does still cause a tremendous amount of suffering.

Just ignore the crazy religious people

That is easier said than done if the crazy religious, spiritual, superstituous people don't ignore you and murder you for supposedly being a witch. Sounds medieval, but it isn't. https://www.dw.com/en/witch-hunts-a-global-problem-in-the-21st-century/a-54495289 Or if you are being beaten and killed for being homosexual. https://www.dw.com/en/iran-defends-execution-of-gay-people/a-49144899 Or if you are being "honour killed" because you didn't want to live in a forced marriage and wear a head scarf. https://www.dw.com/en/honor-killings-in-germany-when-families-turn-executioners/a-42511928

Long story short: too many religious people suck a lot. Worsened by their need to expand their religion by proselytizing the naive and thereby nurturing more maniacs.

Why waste so much energy disproving its existence?

To mitigate suffering and save lives in the long run.

Religion has and always will exist.

Probably true but changeable by peacefully reducing member counts of religions.

It’s a way for people to cope with their insignificance, cope with unfairness, and grapple with the concept of death and accepting its inevitablity

Which shows the need for further societal support solutions on a larger scale which do not need religion to function. Think of better education, better access to medical and psychological help as a start.

[–] kent_eh@lemmy.ca 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I think the fundamental issue with this is that it presumes that our understanding of morality is perfect.

By that measure, all religions have the fundamental issue of presuming that they have any actual knowledge or understanding of their god(s).

[–] bitfucker@programming.dev 1 points 4 months ago (2 children)

But not all religions claim to have perfect knowledge of their god? Some acknowledge that god is greater and beyond our understanding

[–] kent_eh@lemmy.ca 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Conveniently, they claim to know what their god wants when they're telling you want to do, but also claim not to understand their gods ways when challenged on parts of their faith.

[–] bitfucker@programming.dev 0 points 4 months ago

I mean yeah, that is the point. A higher being told you to do X, you understood X exactly as it is a concept that you already have built upon in the course of your life. But you still cannot comprehend the higher being itself.

Take a simple thought experiment from flatland. If a spherical (3D) being were to appear on an otherwise 2D (flatland) world and say "Do not go to your house tonight". The flatlander can understand the meaning of what the sphere said, but cannot comprehend the sphere itself in its entirety. No matter how the sphere explains himself to the flatlander, the flatlander may not have the correct picture of the sphere.

[–] SPOOSER -1 points 4 months ago (2 children)

My point is that none of it makes sense. Our existence and consciousness in a vast universe doesn't make sense. So at the end of the day, who cares what someone else believes to cope with that? Bad shit happens, people will explain it was for one purpose or another, but at the end of the day bad shit just happens and we should do our best to stop it, regardless of whos fault it is.

It's so weird. Athiests claim to not believe in a god but then blame a god for when bad things happen, asking believers why their god would let it happen. Why do they care about what an imaginary god lets happen? Some sick fuck murdered a bunch of people, who gives a flying fuck what some random religon's god says about it?

[–] Zacryon@feddit.org 1 points 4 months ago

So at the end of the day, who cares what someone else believes to cope with that?

I care as soon as religion causes suffering. Which was and still is the case. (Sorry, have to say it again.)

but at the end of the day bad shit just happens and we should do our best to stop it, regardless of whos fault it is.

Agreed.

Athiests claim to not believe in a god but then blame a god for when bad things happen

Personally, I can imagine that's frustration coming from people who may have been raised in a religious household. But I can't speak for all. Haven't heard from such a phenomenon though.

[–] kent_eh@lemmy.ca 1 points 4 months ago

who cares what someone else believes to cope with that?

I start caring then those "coping mechanisms" begin to be imposed on people who aren't members of that religion.

[–] trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago

"Uhhh mysterious ways is why children get cancer"

This is a copout and you're a silly little guy

[–] Zacryon@feddit.org 2 points 4 months ago

Regarding your first paragraph:

According to the christian bible their God literally told them that for example killing is evil. And yet, it exists and God is a mass murderer according to bible accounts. There are various explicit and implicit definitions of good and evil available in that book which is supposedly written by their God in some way or another. Therefore, the omnipotent being defined clear rules of morality which it doesn't even uphold itself.

allow people to believe how they want and stop trying to convince people one way another about their beliefs

Although I agree in principle with the notion of "live and let live", organised religion has caused unfathomable suffering and it still does. In a lot of religions it is sadly incorporated into their very core. That's something which I can not tolerate and will speak out against.

[–] humbletightband@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Double this.

Basically God's evil != Human's evil

[–] Zacryon@feddit.org 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

But God told humans what good and evil is, therefore human's evil is at least a subset of God's evil.

[–] humbletightband@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 4 months ago

AFAIK that's true for Islam and several branches of orthodoxy.