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Sylvia Rivera, born on July 2 in 1951, was a Latina American queer rights activist, member of the Gay Liberation Front, and community worker from the state of New York.

Rivera, who identified as a "half-sister", participated in demonstrations with the Gay Liberation Front. With her close friend Marsha P. Johnson, Rivera co-founded the Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries (STAR), a socialist group dedicated to helping homeless young drag queens, gay youth, and trans women.

At different times in her life, Rivera battled substance abuse and lived on the streets, largely in the gay homeless community at the Christopher Street docks. Her experiences made her more focused on advocacy for those who, in her view, mainstream society and the assimilationist factions of the LGBT community were leaving behind.

Rivera died during the dawn hours of February 19th, 2002, at St. Vincent's Hospital, of complications from liver cancer. Activist Riki Wilchins said this of her: "In many ways, Sylvia was the Rosa Parks of the modern transgender movement, a term that was not even coined until two decades after Stonewall".

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[–] Kolibri@hexbear.net 14 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

I feel so fucked. I'm doing laundry right now, mainly just drying clothes, while having something cooking in the oven. and for a brief moment I thought I smelt smoke and panicked, and immediately went to go check on everything and everything fine. and this is not the first time where I suddenly got extremely worried of there being a fire, because it felt like I smelt smoke or something. this is exhausting. at least everything fine and there is no fire or anything. getting worried over nothing again.

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[–] Black_Mald_Futures@hexbear.net 14 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

I'm so mad that I can't just like argue with the manager of Reddit on the phone and tell them that their ban was incorrect and that I deserve an apology

especially when I've reported like at least half a dozen dudes for doing the shit I've been accused of and gotten Reddit.com responses going "no content violation found here!" like I cannot stress to y'all enough how powerful my desire is to speak to a human being about it and tell them how infinitely wrong they are

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[–] Ecohex@hexbear.net 14 points 9 months ago (3 children)

i'm back on my coding grind like some kind of nerd. though admittedly i got distracted trying to make icons

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[–] PaX@hexbear.net 14 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Posting my Ls today

One time someone I knew online was going to school for computer science (I think they still are but I haven't spoken to them in a while) and they were taking a math class ofc. I have a lot more practical experience than them but they were telling me something about Cauchy sequences or something and I thought it was some kind of obscure math they were teaching or something and I didn't understand why and completely embarrassed myself as they tried to explain to me that this is foundational stuff

WHY DIDN'T THEY TEACH ME ANY MATH BEYOND THE MOST BASIC SHIT IN PRIMARY/SECONDARY SCHOOL dog-screm

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[–] wombat@hexbear.net 14 points 9 months ago

it is july 3 and stalin saved the world from fascism

[–] InevitableSwing@hexbear.net 14 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I got very scared and then it was funny. Sitting at my computer desk I heard something that sounded weird. I moved over to were the tower is and at first I thought maybe components in my cable modem were melting. Then I bent down and then I wondered if the noise was a crackling fire with occasional popping sounds. My heart started beating. Fire! Is the outside wall on fire? What the fuck is happening!

It turns out it was auditory oddity. My screen door was open and I didn't know it had started to rain. The cracking sounds was simply the rain falling on the concrete outside and the echo/reverb really make it sound like a burning noise. The perfectly matched popping sounds must be larger amounts of water occasionally falling off tree branches in globs.

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[–] MF_COOM@hexbear.net 14 points 9 months ago (4 children)

So Interstellar is just a dumb movie hey

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[–] viva_la_juche@hexbear.net 14 points 9 months ago

These mf landlords tried to charge me my normal rent PLUS another 200 bucks this month despite my lease ending on the 19th????

[–] videogame@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago (1 children)
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[–] DengistDonnieDarko@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago

Hard to not be filled with despair today

[–] WhyEssEff@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (4 children)

used ta despise kamala and critically support bernie. now I despise bernie and critically support kamala. thaaaaaats politics ba dm tsh

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[–] Sickos@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago (3 children)
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[–] let_me_tank_her@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago (1 children)

and when the Democrats needed the neoliberal avatar, Michelle Obama, the most. She vanished.

Seriously, she wins 50 states against Trump. trump-kaneki

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago

I wish every State Department Spokesperson nothing but suffering.

[–] hexaflexagonbear@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago

Hearing the charges getting read and shaking my head so the jury knows I don't approve of crime

[–] Stoatmilk@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I like being summoned in Souls games, but right now I'm at the level in Elden Ring where the only two places I get summoned are the Radahn fight (the only boss that is actually harder if you summon) and the Lake of Rot (what do they even want me to do here?). I wish I had more restraint and never touched those statues.

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[–] Barx@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I love how Boy Boy (YT channel) are always phoning it in and speaking sarcastically when doing their video sponsor segments.

"Build your small business with this boring tool. It's commie-approved!"

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[–] Black_Mald_Futures@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Why doesn't Trump just loudly and repeatedly talk about how Joe Biden can't draw a clock

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[–] M68040@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

What a time to have to rely on "opposition" ran by people who will demonstrably not lift a finger to save their own lives

[–] Zrc@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago

"People only comment 'Free Palestine" on my videos because I'm Jewish"

look inside

"💙Am Israel Chai🤍" in bio

[–] Frank@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago

Love when hardcore pornography gets dropped off on my front porch (It's the Uline catalog)

[–] M68040@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Projected odds of Hayes Code comeback before 2030: Non-zero

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[–] Frank@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago

Caught myself using Maoist standard English on the dating apps.

[–] hexaflexagonbear@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago

I kinda get r&d or software engineer working at some ambitous startup getting a little high on their own supply, but sometimes ill see data "scientists" talking like they're curing cancer and I know they're probably just predicting clickthrough rates or making quarterly earnings reports. You're not going to change the world, you're probably not going to even change your plotly theme.

[–] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago (1 children)

It's pouring rain and thundering and I'm about to read tendency of the general rate of profit to fall lets-fucking-go

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[–] sewer_rat_420@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago

I have been happily off Reddit for a month or so as I mostly am using hexbear for my cheap dopamine hits.

There are still some subreddits I go to, mostly for a couple video games and a sports team. Today I made the mistake of clicking r/all and the #1 post was from r/whitepeopletwitter, basically accusing the NYT of having...a pro-trump slant? Because they won't call for Trump to drop out?

And the comments were...awful. These shiddiots have their heads so deep in the sand they're about to hit bedrock. Thank you all for providing a beacon of...sanity?

Also, I just realized the general megathread rotates comms lol

[–] Ossay@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Me when i'm about to give one star to the doordash guy for looking me in the eyes: "You made your last delivery, kid"

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[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Between scotus making crime legal for presidents and the debate, it's been a really really funny week

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[–] thelastaxolotl@hexbear.net 13 points 9 months ago (1 children)
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[–] Ossay@hexbear.net 12 points 9 months ago (2 children)

There is something about House of the Dragon. It has a higher budget per episode, and reuses a lot of the same sets, yet it looks worse than GoT, like there is this weird filter and lighting on everything. I've seen people say it looks kind of like a porn parody of GoT

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 12 points 9 months ago

I miss snacking bocchi-cry

[–] Zrc@hexbear.net 12 points 9 months ago

Please president Xi, my people yearn for freedom. Please send DF41 ICBMs to liberate my country from the oppressive Biden regime.

[–] Blockocheese@hexbear.net 12 points 9 months ago

Drake remembers Biden saying if you dont vote for him you "ain't Black" so he becomes a US citizen to vote his way back into saying the n word

[–] Mokey@hexbear.net 12 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Im really into the idea of running subway out of business by getting their sandwichs associated with pedophilia

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