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For more context: I already had the communism and lefty communites blocked. I'd consider myself middle-left of the political spectrum but personally don't believe in some grand revolution saving us all. Most left communities on here seem to far out there for my personal taste at least. My comment is deleted but if you wanna see the post here's the link.

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[–] wildbus8979@sh.itjust.works 31 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

So you block everything you don't like, but you complain that people block you when they don't like what you have to say? You do see the irony here right?

[–] Cephalotrocity@biglemmowski.win 24 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

There's no irony there. There's a difference between curating your own experience and others forcing censorship on you.

[–] wildbus8979@sh.itjust.works 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (3 children)

People can curate the experience they want on their community as well. Same thing really. They don't have to content with low quality post that calls them in question with no substance over and over again.

[–] MagicShel@programming.dev 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Yeah. My sympathies lie with OP, but communities should be able to unapologetically curate their vibe.

[–] timestatic@feddit.org 0 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

I wish you’d differentiate between instance and community. I didn’t just get banned from that specific community but from the whole instance permanently without explanation. I mean I guess I don't mind that much in retrospect but it did mildly annoy me since I like commenting and lemmy doesn't have that much content to begin with compared to the likes of reddit.

[–] MagicShel@programming.dev 4 points 3 weeks ago

lol. You were blocked because they didn't like your comment was getting upvotes? Idk, buddy. Good riddance, I'd say. I understand about the lack of content, though.

[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

That applies to instances, too - they should be also free to curate their own vibes, including saying "you are not welcome here". Nobody here is entitled to the usage of an instance.

The problem with lemmy .ml is on another level: transparency. Instead of actually telling users what they want/don't want in their instance, like Hexbear for example correctly does, they keep pushing and pulling rule #1 (no bigotry - the reason why you were banned BTW) and rule #2 (be respectful) to justify every single action. It's effectively lying to the users.

[–] timestatic@feddit.org 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I agree with you and think if an instance communicates clearly what they are and what they want then I have no problem.

BTW how do you no the reason why I'm supposedly banned when I don't even know that.

[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

BTW how do you no the reason why I’m supposedly banned when I don’t even know that.

Modlog.

It's weird to think about it. It's a great transparency tool, and yet made by the same group that struggles to handle users in a transparent way.

[–] timestatic@feddit.org 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

That's actually a cool thing. Never knew this existed. My comment was definitely a bit salty looking back. It's just I didn't find any humor in the post and found this type of post to appear often. Good to know tho, I'll look into it since I'm curious what other type of comments they ban. Still bigotry is a weird claim, since they can't seem to tolerate my opinion. Although that brings up the whole tolerating intolerance topic. I don't think I was being intolerant personally. I just didn't find the satire in the meme.

[–] Aurenkin@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

When you create the experience of your community you are curating it for everyone else though, not just yourself which I think is the distinction.

I don't think it's necessarily a big deal because fortunately Lemmy has lots of instances and communities so if you disagree with one you can just go to another one.

[–] wildbus8979@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 weeks ago

When you create the experience of your community you are curating it for everyone else.

Yes. Everyone else includes me, who's tired of shitlibs posting low quality whining about leftists. One of the main reasons I got off Reddit.

[–] timestatic@feddit.org -3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I wish you'd differentiate between instance and community. I didn't just get banned from that specific community but from the whole instance permanently without explanation.

[–] wildbus8979@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

You do know the modlog is public right? You weren't banned, you're low effort comment was removed. Plus the distinction you're trying to make between community and instance is moot. In fact it's probably truer for an instance, the admins don't have to pay, maintain, and assume some liability for your content if they don't feel like it. They aren't providing a transport layer.

[–] timestatic@feddit.org 0 points 3 weeks ago

Wait I checked and now im just banned from !memes@lemmy.ml but not from lemmy.ml as a whole. My comment wasn't low effort tho. I was just mentioning how I dislike communist violent revolution fantasy getting posted over and over as "memes" when they aren't ironic or satirical.

[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

My problem is the simping for dictators and dictatorships.

Oh also the Revolution LARPing and the anti-electoralism.

I find a lot of lefty communities around here (Lemmy in general) tick those boxes which means they're a no from me. But I'd be super happy if someone linked one that didn't tick those boxes.

I straight up stopped searching for communities that advertise that their left on here due to them basically ticking those boxes mentioned above.

[–] Eldritch@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

Lemmy as a whole is pretty staunchly left and tolerant generally. Looking for things flagging themselves left here. Implies looking for the left of the left. Which ultimately leads to circle jerking and edgelord virtue signaling. It's a bad time. Left can mean different things to different people. Drasticly so. If you consider yourself "left" look into some of their philosophies and see what resonates. Then look for communities based around that. You'll likely have a much better time. And learn things in the process. Win win.

[–] Aurenkin@sh.itjust.works 6 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah for real, I got sick of being gaslit eventually so I ended up just using my client to instance block some of the worst offenders and found similar communities on less extremist instances. Been a lot better since then.

[–] timestatic@feddit.org -1 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah I feel that... I like discussing novel ideas how things can be done different. I once had a longer discussion with one of the aforementioned users but I knew there was no point once they started denying mass starvation in the soviet union and the human rights infringements. I wish it could be different but I guess you gotta pick your poison whether or not to see these communities. Also I don't get them claiming china being supposedly communist when its really not but oh well...

[–] Blinchik@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I dont care about politics, I just want to laugh at dumb memes

[–] timestatic@feddit.org 1 points 3 weeks ago

You have me agreeing with you on that one!

[–] marcos@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I never managed to be blocked.

I did have a post deleted explaining that a meme was from a spam account to somebody trying to understand the meme, based on the rule that disallows spam. But AFAIK, that's all.

Anyway, I've removed all ml communities from my list. It's not worth interacting with the people there.

[–] timestatic@feddit.org -1 points 3 weeks ago

Honestly I'd agree with you if it wasn't for the fact that sadly lemmy is still really small in terms of content and I like interacting with people. Since ml is like the second biggest community its mildly annoying but I guess you gotta pick your poison. Probably better just focusing on content from the other instances thats a bit less toxic tho.

[–] BenLeMan@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

FYI the ".ML" does not stand for Millesian Liberalism.

[–] samokosik@lemmy.world 0 points 3 weeks ago