If you're in the US, your local pharmacy likely hosts a drug take-back box. You can put it in there, and congratulations: Safe disposal is now the responsibility of the DEA. Yes, Nicotine is considered a drug for this purpose, so this is the correct place to dispose of the liquid. Remove any personally identifying information, because nobody wants the liability.
As far as the flavorants go, those aren't a drug. If you're concerned about safe disposal and can't/don't want to research safe disposal of them, you can drop those off at your municipality's local Household Hazardous Waste Day (or Zero Waste Day) whenever that occurs for you.
Between these two options, you can get rid of basically anything you can't figure out how to safely dispose of for free.