I struggle with having arguments and discourse repeat on my head over and over again, even after it's been months/years since they passed. that part of my brain quieted down an important ammount after i left there too. i miss the niche communities but the mental health toll isn't it (also that api bs either, which is when i left)
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Yeah, it’s not worth it. Hopefully I can get the communities I liked there started here!
You'll quickly realize that this place isn't fundamentally different from reddit from an end-user perspective. The same highly opinionated people who think they are better than you (I'm not excluding myself from this, but there are quite a few others here who tend to lean far more left politically than your typical reddit user, sometimes until they fall on their knees and kiss Stalin's boots), the same kind of moderators with god complexes as in every other forum ever since forums have existed, the same misinformation and propaganda, the same potential for people to ruin your day by showing their true colors. The best intentions by the creators don't really change all that much, because they are flawed human being like all of us and because it's ultimately still just the same flawed human beings who make up the user base, people who are not suddenly behaving differently, just because there's some vague rule to "bee nice" in the sidebar.
Make a decentralized copy of reddit and you get people behaving like they are on reddit, it's as simple as that.
You can totally have nice time here and I have managed to get my own blood pressure back down to the usual far too low levels by blocking a few communities with the worst moderators and users (or with topics that showed less flattering sides of their personalities and beliefs) and spending more time on topics that offer less potential for conflict, but ultimately, it's the same ol' as smaller subreddits or smaller forums of old. The best thing you can do is use Beehaw like a smoker would use an e-cig: As a (hopefully) less harmful detox from social media that ultimately leads to abstinence. I'm not there yet and might never get there, because it's still social media and still addictive.
Either way, welcome to smaller reddit with bees and lemmings. Sorry for the slightly less upbeat introduction and I hope you'll still enjoy your stay.
I had a nice day playing board games with my family (Dorfromantik ftw!) and wrestling with my cheap 3D printer (Elegoo Neptune 3 Pro) - which is strong enough to lift itself, not exactly light at 8.1kg, almost entirely off the table on a filament string. Can you believe it? I wish I had taken a photo of this mishap.
Just wanted to chime in and thank you for providing a valid critique and reality check for folks. No matter what we do as admins and moderators, humans are gonna human (myself included) and we should be realistic about what this space can and cannot be.
I personally never envisioned this place as being a be-all end-all solution to the problem with social media, just one attempt (among many) to find ways to do it a little bit healthier. Building on the shoulders of giants and all - maybe some of our principles will make it into another healthy platform in the future.
With that being said, I do want to be clear that if you ever have a critique or would like to report things that aren't working on this instance, please speak up about it! We can only act on information that is surfaced to us and we want to do our best to curate the best space we possibly can in our little corner of the internet and fediverse.
This is also as good a time as any to remind our newcomers, such as @kimagurevenus@beehaw.org, to go read through our docs when you've got a minute. Of particular note the core principles outline most of what kind of community we're trying to provide a space for and how we expect people to act on our instance.
Slightly on topic, but I finally read all of the great content you have for the FAQ, etc. and I just want to say thank you for this space. There's so much to love about this community, and I have a stronger affinity for Beehaw and the vision you and the mods have created here knowing more about the history of how it began and what you hope to create with this platform. Cheers!
Thanks for the reply. I might come back to you at some point.
A quick heads up: For some reason, this reply does not appear in my Inbox here on Beehaw. No idea why, maybe it's worth looking into.
Thanks!
sometimes until they fall on their knees and kiss Stalin’s boots
I'm going to push back on that and say that in my experience, the tankies come from outside beehaw, and their ideas get a lot of opposition. I've seen plenty of beehaw admins/mods ban MLs that are denying genocide
No no, you gave me a much needed reality check. Just saw articles about minority groups being run off of some Fedi platforms and it’s very disheartening. Although, I’m glad to see instances like Beehaw and whatever else make sure that everyone has a seat at the table if that makes sense.
almost entirely off the table on a filament string. Can you believe it? I wish I had taken a photo of this mishap.
Woah! No I can’t!
The motor that pulls in the filament is ridiculously strong on this printer. It has never been unable to feed, even if it had to drag the entire printer or a full filament roll across the table. It has broken filament holders and arms, to the point that I had to modify the current solution with a metal core so that it wouldn't snap apart. I'm feeding from a filament dryer and I had build a crazy contraption that fixes the thing in place so that it's not dragged around by the sheer torque of this motor - and after this mishap, I have clamped the printer down with metal profiles. My worry is that the next time a filament roll gets stuck sideways in the dryer, the printer will tear itself apart or at the very least dislocate the print head (or destroy the plastic housing of the dryer). We'll see.
Either way, I adore this thing. With careful calibration and the properly dried and stored material (mostly that, I have to admit), I've been able to exceed the print quality of printers more than ten times as expensive, make complex functional prints within days of setting the thing up for the first time. It just took two or three times as long per print.
Welcome to the shitshow.
I mean, CONGRATS On leaving that shitshow. Welcome to the hive, happy to see more folks finding this space and contributing to make it better,
I am having a wonderful day and thank you for asking!
I hope you find many more days of enjoyment here at Beehaw.
Take care.
Welcome, let this place be your grass to touch :). I am doing better than expected. Had a really bad time mentally but slowly recovering and finding joy.
Listening to good music (Sigur Ros, Explosions in the Sky, Dan Auerbach's wonderful solo albums (singer from the Black Keys).
Playing some fun games I got for cheap in the steam sale.
Watching an anime on Crunchyroll for the first time (The forbidden deduction of Ron Something Something).
What do you enjoy?
Yeah, I’ve never been there mentally, but I’m doing okay right now. I like listening to music, drawing, photography, reading webcomics and a bunch of other creative things.
Any cool webcomics you can recommend? Doesn't matter how obscure or weird they might be. I haven't read any, not even xkcd, in ages.
I mostly read webcomics on the Webtoons app, and I’m really into the comedy ones. One that I love is “Maru is a Puppy," which is about a girl whose dog turns into a little girl that she has to take care of. Then there’s "The Ki Sisters," which is like The Addams Family but with all female characters and a modern twist on pop culture. I’ve also been checking out "K.O," which follows a guy named Joel. He’s known as the "beast" at school because he fights a lot, but some of his classmates are starting to see that he’s not such a bad guy after all.
I’m not good at explaining so I’ll leave this here!:
https://www.anime-planet.com/manga/maru-is-a-puppy
Hi, I'm not on Beehaw, I've already gotten rid of reddit like a year ago. How's your day?
cuz mine is terrible 🙃
No no, I get it! What’s terrible about it? If it’s okay to ask.
Its December 21
Jan 20 is US presidential inauguration
Although I'm a Citizen, I'm not born in the US.
I'm not white
President-elect says "Mass Deportations"
There has already been reports in the past of Mexican-Americans being deported despite being Citizens
This is my face pretending everything is okay:🙃
On top of the political climate
My parents are shitty
Moving out is not an option
Tariffs are going make that even more impossible, living expenses are gonna skyrocket, living along is practically a death sentence.
On top of that, I can't really mantain a job due to servere depression
Parents are opposed to medication
So its not really my day being shitty. My life is being shitty. Therefore, every day is shitty.
🙃
No I completely understand! While we are different, I’m a Black American, I’m struggling to get my family out of a crappy area as is, imagine what would happen when Trump is president? Not to mention the majority of his cult members, who are horrible as is towards Black folks and any other minority groups.. His cabinet picks..? Supreme Court..? So fun.. 😭
My bestie, despite being born in the US is Guyanese, so I’m really hoping that she can stay. If she leaves, I wouldn’t know what to do.