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https://lemmy.ml/comment/16125064

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[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 61 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

Never, under any circumstances, use the phrase "you people" unless you're in the mood for everyone in the universe to act like you just lost the argument.

[–] lemonmelon@lemmy.world 30 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Solid advice. It can be completely benign, but people will still pounce on it for an "easy win".

[–] chemical_cutthroat@lemmy.world 32 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

You people make some good points.

[–] ddash@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] CreatingMachines@fedia.io 12 points 1 week ago

You people are excused. /s

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[–] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 week ago

I mean you're not wrong in that people will often try to play the victim in that scenario, but there are plenty of intelligent people who can easily see such claims are merely a flimsy argumentative tactic. After all, we are discussing it right now, and its pretty easy to recognize when it happens.

Definitely still solid advice though, especially IRL. Online I feel like it's a bit more acceptable, because you don't even know the physical characteristics of the person you're arguing with, so it's much more difficult to twist you people into some kind of discriminatory or bigoted statement, given that the two debaters are anonymous.

[–] rickyrigatoni@lemm.ee 23 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Then what do you people want me to say?

[–] rustyfish@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

I can come up with a couple of nonspecific alternatives, all of them would cause an even worse mayhem.

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[–] TheFrirish@jlai.lu 8 points 1 week ago

The usage here is appropriate but you are absolutely correct. It is the perfect way to start losing an argument.

When reading all the Tankie bullshit it's actually very easy to get emotional so that's why I limit my interactions with them. I only come out when they are not offered a counter point outside of their 3 instances.

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[–] sheepy@lemm.ee 46 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

Imagine not being able to tell the difference between "I don't believe half of their users are trans" and "I don't believe in their users being trans".

Demographics isn't transphobic. Using trans people as a shield from criticism is.

EDIT: I looked over the October survey. The graphs aren't the cleanest but the data is there: 15% of all asked identified as trans, with another 9% as trans non-binary. A sample size of 600 to the 2300 monthly users is also really good, so the data ought to be very representative.

[–] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Oh, they can tell the difference. It's just that their whole mentality is attuned to seizing on some trivial bullshit, deliberately misunderstanding it into some wild kind of caricature, and then lecturing the "opponent" about how they're wrong about everything.

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[–] asudox@discuss.tchncs.de 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Thanks for bringing this up, Cowbee has been banned.

[–] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

That guy is so annoying with his faux-neutrality/naivety. What a phony, good riddance.

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[–] TheFrirish@jlai.lu 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Wait where has he been banned from? discuss.tchncs.de or here?

[–] asudox@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] TheFrirish@jlai.lu 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Alright thanks good to know. Thank you for taking such action. I have rarely seen someone acting so innocent yet at the same time being so disingenuous.

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[–] IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 39 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Meanwhile, Lemmy Devs are saying the "transgender topic" is promoted by "the bourgeoisie", and how "biological men" shouldn't be competing in "women's sports"

https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/25213024

(also, who the fuck says "biological men" in the transgender context, its called transgender women)

[–] recreationalcatheter@lemm.ee 37 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (9 children)

(also, who the fuck says "biological men" in the transgender context, its called transgender women)

Conservatives and other right wing that's who. That's why you hear tankie leadership saying it.

Tankies are anti-lgbtq at their core. Anything to simp for totalitarians.

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[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 25 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

To be fair, hexbear did ban those devs for those comments.

[–] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 week ago

It's a little noted fact that the lemmy devs don't really fuck with hexbear or vice versa. Presumably they also recognize the same childish, bad faith, obnoxious argumentative tactics that we have all come to know and love from hexbear.

While I'm on the topic, Nutomic and Dessalines also have very different views, and constantly referring to them as the monolithic tankie lemmy devs is somewhat reductive. Dessalines seems to be the more tankie-ish of the two based on the evidence I've seen.

It's fair to assume that a good number of the OG lemmy.ml users and lemmygrad users aren't big fans of hexbear either, considering hexbear has always maintained a separate space for themselves. Pretty wild that hexbear users are so toxic and misanthropic that even other tankies are repelled by them.

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[–] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 25 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (10 children)

It seems unlikely that half of their users would be transgender, given that transgender people make up roughly .5% of the overall population; gay people (gay men + lesbians) make up roughly 4.5-5% of the overall population the last time I looked at demographics. All of the LGBTQ+ people together make up about 6% of the total population in the US.

These numbers might have changed somewhat in the last year or two since I last check surveys, but it's not likely that it's changed enough to move the numbers sharply.

I know that there was some investigative reporting in my state a few months ago trying to figure out how many minors would be affected by a state-level ban on insurance covering gender-affirming care for minors, and the number was in in the very low double digits. The same kind of numbers of athletes would be affected by bans on 'biological males' competing in womens' sports.

I'm just saying that it just doesn't seem very likely that an instance with thousands of users would have that kind of demographics, esp. when you consider that Hexbear broadly has a monolithic political identity.

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 10 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I mean I could believe it about an arbitrary thing over a general populace. I mean like a gay bar is likely to have like 90% gay people in it. And its not like the federation is huge and it tends to attract out groups.

[–] taladar@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

But it is not as if the instance advertises itself as a place specifically for trans people.

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[–] socsa@piefed.social 20 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Literally the only place I have ever experienced transphobia on Lemmy was from a hexbear, who called me a chaser for saying that my ex was a trans woman.

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[–] starman2112@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 week ago

"You people," huh?

I hate how they're incapable of actually thinking, so they latch onto specific phrases so they can pretend you're a racist so they don't have to engage with what you're actually saying

[–] recreationalcatheter@lemm.ee 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I don't believe ANY hexbear users are leftists either.

they'll probably say that's leftphobic. These cretins can't manage logic and reason.

[–] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

There are definitely some that have been lured in by the grift. I feel bad for those people but there's no way for us to reach them as long as they stay in the hexbear bubble.

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[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 week ago (26 children)

The fuck with this obsession of telling people whether they are or are not trans online?

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[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I tagged Cowbee as a tankie also. I despise the technique also: lobbing "-phobic" accusations if there's anything that can be seen as negative said in the same paragraph that mentions some group like trans people. It's shitty for multiple reasons.

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[–] SoylentBlake@lemm.ee 7 points 1 week ago

I commented one time on the bear that Ukraine has a right to self defense and self actualization and got flooded by 15 different users, all pro-russia, then banned.

Oooook. But that tracks I guess. I lean left and theres nothing I hate more than leftists, except fascists.. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

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